Expert Laurence Dispaux, psychologist-psychotherapist, marriage counselor and clinical sexologist, will answer you.
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“My husband and I have sex on the weekends, because being very busy with my work during the week, I am too stressed to have desire or take the time to make love. He feels a bit lonely during the week, feeling like he’s the only one caring about this aspect of our relationship. But I just don’t have the room in me for that, ”Angie, 27.
Reply:
You sum up a frequent situation, a desire gap amplified by this reality: your daily concerns, and in particular your professional life, occupy all the psychic space during the week. Conclusion, the partner may feel forgotten and suffer from the lack of eroticism for five days in a row. Perhaps he needs to feel seen, recognized in his sexualized identity; perhaps she also misses the language of love of physical contact.
