parish couples are becoming more and more common in the evangelical church. In contrast to the Catholic Church, women have the opportunity to become pastors and thus to combine church and family. “Meanwhile, we almost have a surplus of women in the universities,” reports Ines Siebenkotten.
That decides who becomes the pastor of a congregation Presbyterium. This is a body that governs the parish. Other tasks are: the determination of the services, representation of the parish in legal transactions and some more.
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His wife also began studying theology in Wuppertal. This was followed by a year abroad in Paris, and to complete her studies, the 42-year-old ended up in Heidelberg with Professor Dr. Gerd Theißen, with whom she also did her doctorate. She did her vicariate in the evangelical parish in Kempen before beginning her probationary service in Süchteln and Krefeld-Süd. Between 2015 and February 2022 both worked together in Troisdorf, where they shared a pastorate.
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“I really enjoyed doing all the stations, but since it’s a return home, we’re particularly looking forward to the task,” says Ines Siebenkotten. Her husband agrees and adds: “Sunday is not a day like any other. Since it’s not our first launch, excitement will likely be contained. The anticipation of the new faces, even if they are behind masks, is overwhelming.”
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The couple’s duties go far beyond the Sunday service. “We share the tasks with our parish colleague Christine Grünhoff. We are primarily concerned with children and youth work in the church community. For example, my husband does a lot of church services at school and takes care of kindergartens, and I will spend a lot of time with the confirmands and with the lessons,” explains Ines Siebenkotten. The tasks as a pastor are even more extensive, because in addition to supporting children and young people, church services in retirement homes, baptisms, funerals, weddings and committee work for the presbytery are also on the agenda. “We have a pretty full schedule. But it is still very important to us that people can contact us in any situation. We are always available for a private conversation and take the time to just listen to people,” says the pastor.
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Outside the vicarage, they enjoy spending time with their two children. “I used to do a lot of yoga and I hope that I’ll be able to do it again soon, but I mainly spend my free time with the children,” says Ines Siebenkotten. Meanwhile, her husband is a gifted hobby cook: “I like to be in the kitchen. But I also ride my bike a lot, and I really enjoy taking care of the fish in my aquarium,” reports the pastor.
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The Corona period also messed up the couple’s everyday life. “Zoom conferences are the order of the day here. But our task as a church, to approach people more and not wait, is not made any easier by the Corona situation,” explains Ines Siebenkotten.
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Nevertheless, the two theologians hope for the best and look forward to the new challenges that will come their way in the Protestant parish of Krefeld-Süd. “If I can pass on some of my experiences and my faith, then I’m very happy,” says Jonas Siebenkotten.
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