The Spanish actress Ana Milan has defined herself as “quite demisexual” in Vicky Berrocal’s podcast ‘A solas con’. (Infobae montage with image from Podium Podcast/Youtube)
Although there is still a long way to go, in the 21st century human beings have much more freedom to love whoever they want. This has led to new terms emerging in recent years to identify different types of sexual orientations. However, despite the fact that knowledge about the LGTBIQ+ community is expanding and reaching more people, thus promoting tolerance, there are still many individuals who do not know the meaning of some of these terms. This is the case of demisexuality, a sexual orientation with which some celebrities identify, both inside and outside our borders.
Tulisa Contostavlos, singer of the group N-Dubz and former jury member of the the emotions I feel with someone and then wanting to express them in that way,” he opened up to his colleagues on the program I’m a Celebrity…Get Me Out of Here!, in which ten celebrities enter the Australian jungle. The singer has also confirmed that for a time she was on Raya, the exclusive dating application that works only by recommendation and that many celebrities use to find love; However, her experience on the platform was not entirely satisfactory, as the idea of dating made her feel “physically sick.” For this reason, for Tulisa it is very important to “have a very close emotional bond with someone” to take any step towards a relationship.
Ana Milan, the Spanish actress from Camera Café or Physics or Chemistry, also spoke about her love life a few days ago, on Vicky Martín Berrocal’s podcast, Alone with: “I am quite demisexual; I have to be emotionally attached.” In this way, Milan has also identified with this orientation: “I went, at one point in my life, for almost three years, two and a half years, without having any type of sex or kisses with anyone. What a calm stage!” he confessed.
The actress, who has been married twice, does not close the doors to love, but to do so she needs a very strong emotional bond: “Sex for sex’s sake is difficult for me, in particular. The exchange of fluids makes me lazy, I don’t like it. […] “I think the nerves of a first date are nice, feeling the desire for a first kiss.”
Demisexuality, therefore, is defined as the “sexual orientation that is characterized by experiencing sexual attraction only after having formed an emotional bond with someone,” as explained in Psychology and Mind. In this way, for demisexual people it is necessary to know the other person’s personality in depth and they are not guided so much by physical appearance.
Other famous personalities such as Evan Rachel Wood (CSI: Las Vegas) or Shailene Woodley (The Fault in Our Stars, Divergent) have identified with demisexuality, as well as Megan Fox, who has explained on occasion that she has only felt sexually attracted. for a person in your life.”
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What are the potential benefits and drawbacks of increased visibility of demisexuality through celebrity disclosures, and how can this visibility be leveraged to promote broader understanding and inclusivity?
## World Today News: Demisexuality in the Spotlight – An Interview
**Host:** Welcome back to World Today News! Today, we’re diving into a topic garnering increasing attention: demisexuality. Joining us are two guests with unique perspectives on this emerging identity: [Guest 1 Name], a relationship counselor specializing in LGBTQIA+ issues, and [Guest 2 Name], a sociology professor renowned for their work on changing societal perceptions of sexuality.
Welcome both!
**Guest 1 & 2:** (Greetings)
**Host:** Let’s begin by grounding ourselves. The article mentions celebrities like Ana Milan and Tulisa Contostavlos identifying as demisexual. For our audience that might be unfamiliar, could both of you elaborate on what demisexuality is and how it differs from other sexual orientations?
**(Guests discuss definitions, highlighting key features like emotional connection as a precursor to sexual attraction. They can also differentiate it from asexuality).**
**Host:** The article emphasizes that demisexual individuals “need” a strong emotional bond before experiencing sexual attraction.
[Guest 1 Name], could you speak to the importance of language in shaping perceptions? Do we risk pathologizing demisexuality by framing it as a “need”?
**(Guest 1 discusses the positive and potentially negative implications of phrasing, stressing the importance of respecting individual experiences and avoiding medicalization of orientations).**
**Host:** [Guest 2 Name], the article mentions that knowledge about LGTBIQ+ identities, including demisexuality, is expanding. In your research on evolving social perceptions, what trends do you see in understanding and acceptance of demisexuality specifically?
**(Guest 2 discusses the broader context of LGBTQIA+ visibility and representation, noting advancements but also highlighting ongoing challenges and misconceptions about demisexuality). **
**Host:** Ana Milan’s openness about her experience with demisexuality prompts an important question. While increased visibility is crucial, how can we ensure that these conversations go beyond celebrity spotlights and reach more people, especially those who might be questioning their own sexuality?
**(Both guests discuss the role of education, online communities, and inclusive language in fostering understanding and creating safe spaces for exploration).**
**Host:** what advice would you give to someone who is newly identifying as demisexual or exploring the possibility?
**(Guests offer words of empowerment, stressing self-acceptance, finding community, and navigating relationships at one’s own pace). **
**Host:** A huge thank you to both [Guest 1 Name] and [Guest 2 Name] for shedding light on this important topic. We hope this conversation inspires understanding and encourages ongoing dialogue surrounding demisexuality and all spectrums of sexual orientation.
**Post-interview note:**
The World Today News staff encourages continued learning about diverse sexual orientations and identities. For more information and resources, please visit [Link to relevant organizations like The Asexuality Visibility and Education Network (AVEN) or GLAAD].
