Viral girl terrorized for 10 years, psychologist reveals ‘Crimson Flag’ indicators of boys

Jakarta –

A girl in Surabaya went viral in regards to the terror and harassment she suffered for 10 years by one in all her center faculty buddies. He mentioned the incident began in 2014 when he was in his second yr in highschool.

He mentioned a complete of 440 social media accounts have been utilized by the person to intimidate him. The girl felt very uncomfortable and determined to inform the police in regards to the man.

“There are numerous, 440 accounts on Twitter to scare me, on Instagram as effectively. I misplaced lots of Instagram. However not solely the creation of accounts, there’s verbal and photograph sexual harassment additionally within the content material of the accounts,” the sufferer mentioned when he met him. by the media crew of the East Java Regional Police quoted from DetikJatim.

Along with this incident, medical psychologist Anastasia Sari Dewi mentioned there have been a number of ‘crimson flag’ indicators of obsession. Sari defined that obsessional conduct usually is taken into account irregular.

However, as well as, there are a number of issues that you could be see and really feel when different folks or your self really feel an excessive amount of obsession. Considered one of them is ideas in regards to the ‘obsession goal’ that pop up in your head a number of occasions.

“Ideas about sure matters hold repeating of their heads many times. Usually this results in the identical conduct being repeated over a brief time frame. Normally to intrude with their every day duties and duties,” defined Sari.

Sari mentioned that folks with obsessions focus an excessive amount of on targets constantly in order that they have a tendency to neglect their duties and duties. In line with him, this diminished focus can result in decrease efficiency and distraction.

“It isn’t regular anymore, it is like stalking the man in all places, spamming on a regular basis hoping to get consideration, even when he is requested to cease, he’ll carry on to take action, which is an obsession that isn’t regular,” he continued.

All these situations additionally have an effect on the social lifetime of the one who has the obsession. As a substitute of specializing in what’s necessary to do, he can be extra busy ‘strategizing’ to get the goal’s consideration.

“You may as well see your normal sleeping hours, the standard of your sleep, what your ideas are from morning to night. So there are some indicators to see, and there are additionally issues that solely the individual can acknowledge these indicators,” he mentioned .

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