Venna Melinda still feel afraid after the occurrence of domestic violence by Ferry Irawan. Even when she fell asleep, Venna had to check the door many times.
“It’s been 4 days, I’m scared every time I want to sleep. Even though it’s been locked, check again, check again, I can’t think I’m a little less focused,” admitted Venna Melinda in the Morning Morning Ambyar broadcast, Monday (16/1/2023).
Ferry Irawan said Venna Melinda often clamped herself in a tight position when she could not give what her husband wanted. Venna Melinda emphasized that she was no longer strong and as a woman she never demanded anything.
“After the meeting after I said I wasn’t strong. I never made financial demands. If someone says it’s financial, it’s not about physical violence,” said Venna Melinda.
Venna Melinda held back her emotions with a trembling voice again telling what happened at the hotel when the dispute occurred with Ferry Irawan. Even when he had managed to leave the hotel room and entered again to retrieve the cellphone, Ferry managed to push it back against the wall.
“At that time he pushed me, he pushed again into the corner of the wall. There I was, ‘I’m dying.’ I don’t know why I looked Ferry in the eye and said, ‘Bi don’t kill me. Remember you have a mother, you have a younger sister.’ There are eyes Ferry Irawan changed,” he said.
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Venna Melinda cried remembering the domestic violence incident she had experienced. Photo: doc. capture Morning Morning Ambyar
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Venna Melinda couldn’t imagine if she actually fainted or died at that time. Venna Melinda thought that Ferry might make up another story.
Venna Melinda is grateful that she still has the chance to live. While crying she thanked Hotman Paris who wanted to accompany her. He calls himself not a sensation seeker.
“I reported it not looking for a sensation, I wasn’t at that point. I believe God has a big meaning, justice can be obtained at the police station. I said, ‘Brother can you help me? I don’t want any more women to be afraid because they (women) are themselves who can help himself.’ If I fight criminals, maybe I can be prepared, but this is my own husband, whom we really love. He can turn into a monster, my life is almost at the end,” said Venna Melinda, crying.
“I said I’m not ashamed. Let God answer, I don’t understand the law, this incident is real. I was given the opportunity to live, we have to fight for domestic violence, not all women can easily tell and reveal this, I don’t care about ridicule, I can save myself,” he insisted Venna Melinda.
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