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Abidzar Al-Ghifari still felt shame when he revealed the story of a man named Abi Rizal Afif. Apparently, this man was the man who set fire to the late Ustaz Jefri Al Buchori’s house.
This resentment is still in Abidzar’s heart because he still remembers how Abi looked when he first met her. Apparently, at that time, the figure of Abi was planning to convert to Islam, aka converting to Islam.
“So bro, let’s call the person who did this arson, his name is V, this man bothered me, so a month before the house was on fire, he came to his own house, his alibi was that he wanted to convert to Islam,” said Abidzar Al Ghifari in a YouTube broadcast published on Thursday (21/11).
At that time, Umi Pipik did not want to lead Abi to convert because she felt that she did not have enough experience. This made him look for a way for Abi to convert to Islam. However, when he converted to Islam, Abi complained of other problems, namely financial problems.
“Well, my mother did not want to convert to Islam, because she was afraid that she had knowledge, right? In the end, tomorrow the friends of the deceased (Uje) called. Tomorrow she came again, she turned, when she wanted to go back, she made excuses again, she said, ‘Wow, I don’t have money to go back to Manado, because my parents kicked me, my father is Christian, yes my Muslim mother,” said Abidzar.
It seems that Abi’s sad story melted Umi Pipik’s heart at that time. Abi then got an opportunity to work at the home of Umi Pipik and the late Uje.
“His mother had separated from him, because of different religions, well, he said, while he was in Manado, his father continued to torture him. Finally, because my mother felt sorry for him, he told me to work at home, help out, take me to school or something, he had time to work for one month,” said Abidzar.
Then Abidzar told how close he was to the image of Abi. However, one day, a storm arose at the residence of the Abidzar family. Abi’s figure shows unusual behavior.
“That’s when I met him, every day I played with him, well, he liked to borrow the deceased’s guitar, so I gave it to him, just borrowed get on the guitar, playing the guitar with me. Then around 2 or half past 3 in the morning, “My mother heard the sound of broken glass,” said Abidzar.
“My father’s assistant saw this man who looked like he was having a hard time alone, because he looked like he wanted to run away, he asked, ‘Eh, where are you? ‘go?’. Then he said, ‘I want to run away, because there are thieves,’ he continued.
It turned out that Abidzar’s family house had caught fire. But, unfortunately, at that time it was not discovered that Abi was the mastermind behind the fire incident.
“Apparently at the end of the road friends were already waiting for him, he took them on a motorcycle, and suddenly the fire broke out in the house, just as it was starting going out, he came back again at 7 in the morning, I helped to move the things that could still be saved.
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How can religious communities balance the promotion of open-mindedness and welcoming new converts while also safeguarding against potential threats from individuals with hidden motives, as exemplified by Abi Rizal Afif’s case?
## Interview: The Tragedy of Uje’s House Fire
**Introduction:**
This interview explores the tragic burning of the late Ustaz Jefri Al Buchori’s (Uje’s) house, as recounted by his son, Abidzar Al-Ghifari, who reveals details about Abi Rizal Afif, the man responsible for the arson.
We are joined today by two guests:
* **[Guest 1 Name and Title/Expertise]:** An expert in religious conversions and societal integration.
* **[Guest 2 Name and Title/Expertise]:** A psychologist specializing in trauma and coping mechanisms.
**Section 1: The Conversion Story**
* **Abidzar, you mentioned that Abi Rizal Afif initially came to your house expressing a desire to convert to Islam. Can you elaborate on his initial interactions with your family, your mother specifically, and what led her to offer him work?**
* **[Guest 1]:** Abidzar’s account highlights a common vulnerability experienced by individuals exploring new faiths. What are some of the challenges faced by converts, and how can communities best offer support during this vulnerable time?
* **[Guest 2]:** What psychological factors might influence someone to convert to a new religion, particularly in a potentially stressful situation?
**Section 2:** Leading Up to the Fire
* **Abidzar, you described Abi’s behavior becoming unusual in the days leading up to the fire. Can you share more about these changes and what concerns, if any, your family had at the time?**
* **[Guest 2]:** What are some warning signs of potential violence or instability, and how can individuals and families address these concerns?
* **[Guest 1]:** How can religious communities, particularly those welcoming new converts, identify and address potential internal conflicts or vulnerabilities that might contribute to such incidents?
**Section 3: Understanding the Perpetrator**
* **Abidzar, knowing what we know now about Abi’s role in the fire, what are your feelings towards him? Do you think he understood the gravity of his actions?**
* **[Guest 2]:** What psychological factors might contribute to someone committing an act of arson, especially against a family they were previously close to?
* **[Guest 1]:** How can we reconcile faith, forgiveness, and justice in cases like this, where an individual who sought religious guidance seems to have committed a terrible act?
**Section 4: Lessons Learned & Moving Forward**
* **Abidzar, what has this experience taught you about the complexities of human behavior and the importance of trust?**
* **[Guest 1]:** How can religious institutions and communities better screen individuals seeking conversion, while still promoting inclusivity and understanding?
* **[Guest 2]:** What are some coping mechanisms that Abidzar and his family might have used to process this traumatic event? What advice would you offer to others who might be facing similar challenges?
**Conclusion:**
We thank Abidzar for his courage in sharing his story and our guests for their insightful perspectives. This complex case reminds us of the importance of empathy, understanding, and a commitment to building inclusive communities. We hope that by engaging in open and honest conversations about these difficult topics, we can learn and grow together.
