The couple you don’t expect. Andrea in the dedicated episode of Marriage at first sight 2020 devoted to the final decisions he truncated with Nicole. The differences between the two have intensified, inevitably leading to divorce. But there is a twist. Indeed Andrea and Sitara met by chance, they made a friendship that gradually became love. In fact, the two are in love and exclusively at Fanpage.it they draw a balance of their television experience and tell how their love blossomed. The decision is contained in the special episode Marriage at first sight… And then already available exclusively on the Dplay Plus platform for subscribers and which will be broadcast unencrypted on Real Time on Tuesday 24 November.
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What went wrong with your respective partners?
Andrea: Between Nicole and I the fact that we had two completely different styles, two very different characters and two different behavioral aspects. I am a person who likes to share passions and hobbies with his girlfriend and she doesn’t. For example, in the time we spent together while I went walking and running, she stayed in bed.
Sitara: The thing that disappointed me most was the fact that he was feeling with his ex. I also learned that he should have married the year before during the photo book. Then I let myself go anyway because I didn’t really want to leave biased, we took a boat trip and I tried to probe the territory and understand what relationship he had with this ex girlfriend. He was peremptory: “I don’t believe in friendship between man and woman”, then I discovered that he felt it. It was contradictory. It doesn’t seem like it but I am very self-critical and what we have seen is only 1% of me.
Is there anything you wouldn’t do again?
Andrea: I have no regrets the only thing I would change is not to say yes to the confirmation of the marriage with Andrea. Here, this is the only regret I have. I’m like that or you love me or you hate me.
Sitara: I probably wouldn’t have reacted that strongly if I had been a calculating person. But at that moment I felt I was expressing my disappointment in that way.
In your opinion, were the experts wrong in choosing those partners?
Andrea: Absolutely yes because during my first audition I said that it would be impossible for me to move for love. So they found Nicole that she too would not have been able to move for work except to a big city like Rome or Bologna. Certainly, I wouldn’t have turned my life upside down for Nicole.
Sitara: I’ve thought about it and, in my opinion, yes. They probably thought they were putting together two ‘fires’ that would cancel each other out. Gianluca, however, was a cotton ball and I dominated it but not in a negative way. I did it because I was looking for reactions from him.
Did the cameras affect any of your decisions or sentences?
Andrea: No. I wanted to work on myself. In the end, the external appearance is not fundamental. It is true that physically Nicole was not my type and I did not tell her to her face right away, also because if it had happened to me I would have been terrible. So I tried to go further and gloss over the exterior with the hope of falling in love. On the return trip from Milan at that point I had to tell her that things would hardly change between us.
Sitara: But maybe they had conditioned me! I wouldn’t have said a lot of things and I wouldn’t have shown myself that way. But I have lived through the trauma of the lie. I never get angry but I become unclear if I am told lies. I’m sorry the words of my family and friends have not been passed on. Gianluca did not want to share anything or even call his friends. He said to me ‘I’ll do it when you’re my wife’. But what does it mean?
What do you like about each other?
Andrea: The one with Sitara is one of the best relationships I’ve ever had. She is absolutely not how she came out of the program. It is to a small extent when it lacks the reference point. But when you give her some points of stability and solidity then she becomes the most giving person ever. He gets involved and shares things. She often came to the restaurant to help me, when no one asked her and I was very impressed .. We have a video there are pictures of our relationship and I am moved every time I look at it.
Sitara: Andrea is not the person who showed himself in the program. He is a very fragile boy, at times insecure, but he is good and does not do things badly. Its genuineness led him to make mistakes. This insecurity leads him to indulge certain people or allow himself to be influenced by what other people say. I like his sensuality and spontaneity. This relationship was born as a friendship then slowly turned into love with him I found incredible emotions and butterflies in my stomach.
What is the greatest teaching you would bring from this experience?
Andrea: The perfect woman does not exist.
Sitara: That sensitivity and spontaneity, at times, are not appreciated, however it has left me with beautiful friends
Who do you hear about other couples?
Andrea: Gianluca who is in Copenhagen, Luca and Giorgia. Nicole no longer hear from her because she didn’t behave well with me.
Sitara: Everyone except Nicole. He did not want to clarify. We had a little argument and he blocked and unblocked me on whatsapp. When a person does this it is as if he wants to speak for himself. I have not been able to maintain a civil relationship with her.
Luca and Giorgia broke up, bolt from the blue?
Sitara: I don’t understand. I lived them and it was a shock to me. I am on excellent terms with both of them and I find myself between two fires. I was amazed, I also acted as an intermediary to try to mend relationships. I don’t know what clicked in them, I know that she said things that deeply hurt Luca, who is a wonderful person. But Giorgia, who is a determined girl is also a golden girl. Sin.
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