Earlier this month came the news that the reality couple Katie Maloney (35) and Tom Schwartz (39) getting divorced after twelve years together.
The duo had already been boyfriends for three years when they became part of the gang in the TV show “Vanderpump Rules” in 2013. Their relationship was of the turbulent kind and everything from everyday life to allegations of infidelity was well documented in the series.
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Viewers also got to take part when Schwartz proposed to Maloney, as well as their wedding in 2016 and their second wedding, in Las Vegas, in 2019.
Now, on the other hand, they go their separate ways.
“I never thought I would come up with such an advertisement, but I feel it is important to be open about my life with you. After twelve years of adventure, the marriage between Tom and me is over. This end means neither anger nor enmity, so here there is no side to choose “, Maloney shared with fans on Instagram.
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In Schwartz ‘post, it was stated that it was Maloney who wanted out of the marriage, but he does not want sympathy or to be seen as a victim.
“I fully respect Katie’s choice, and we’ve had a healthy and productive conversation about this. It would have been much sadder if she decided to join me and at the same time be unhappy ».
Thought for a long time about the breakup
Now the new single reality star is further easing the veil on why she is breaking up with her husband.
“It was my choice, and it’s probably the hardest and worst choice I’ve ever had to make,” she says in her own podcast «You’re Gonna Love Me»according to Today.
Furthermore, the TV profile reveals that she felt that she woke up inside her own life with a voice that louder and louder told her that it was right to move on. In addition, several burdensome episodes appeared in her life and in their relationship.
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“I wanted to deny them and push them out of my head, because I love Tom and we have built a life together. He was my person and I wanted to be with him for the rest of my life, but I was simply not happy “, she shares.
Scary future
After feeling these feelings for a long time, the 35-year-old knew she could not ignore them anymore. Therefore, she decided to tell Schwartz how she felt.
“I realized I had to start prioritizing myself and my own happiness. It just had to happen “, she shares and continues:
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“I came to a point where I felt like I was going to burst. It had been building up for months. I felt disconnected. As if I was drifting farther and farther away … and I could not stop. It was so incredibly tough to implement it. The most difficult thing was to tell him because I knew he would be crushed.
Despite the fact that Maloney describes the future as “very scary”, she is also “very hopeful” for what the next chapter brings. The exes still live together and just try to figure things out as the days go by.
Finally opens up about the relationship
The breakup may have come as a surprise to many since the duo in October revealed that they wanted to become parents as soon as possible.
At the time, it also emerged that Maloney and Schwartz had been pregnant many years earlier, but chose abortion.
– The pregnancy happened so early in our relationship. We argued all the time and were unsure of our future together, they said, according to People.
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