The wedding night was the first time between me and him, so I was looking forward to this moment. During the passionate time, I looked up at the head of the newlywed bed, and immediately got scared and shouted out loud. Since when did we put a picture of a young woman at the bedside of our newlyweds.
The photo shows her looking straight ahead, smiling brightly. Under the dim lights, I felt like she was staring at me and my wife, making the hairs on the back of my neck rise. I immediately pushed my husband away and got up to see the picture clearly.
– Is she your deceased ex-wife?
My husband nodded his approval. That’s right, before marrying me, he had a wife and she unfortunately passed away due to illness. Because I didn’t want to touch his heartache, I never asked about this in detail. His ex-wife was built an altar by his biological parents, his family does not worship, so the ancestral altar does not have her photo. So, it wasn’t until the wedding night when I saw a picture of her husband lying on the bed, that I knew her husband’s ex-wife’s face.
On the wedding night, seeing a picture of a strange woman on the nightstand, I quickly got up. (Illustration)
I am not a petty person, so I did not stop him from worshiping his ex-wife. I advise you, if you have the heart, you can set up an altar, but absolutely do not put her picture on the bed of the couple. Unexpectedly, my husband refused to listen and his explanation made me even more terrified.
– This is the first picture I took of her when we were still in love, so it has a very special meaning. Before his death, his ex-wife made him promise to always put this picture in his bedroom so she could keep an eye on him.
She wants to share all the joys and sorrows with you. I made a promise to her, so I can’t break it, I hope you can forgive me. It’s just a photo after all, placing it here won’t make any difference.
My husband did not listen to advice forever, so I angrily packed my things and left the house on the wedding night.
I stopped at the hotel to stay, one day I did not dare to go home because I did not know how to explain to my parents, and my husband did not contact me to comfort me. Is it wrong for me to forbid you to leave pictures of the deceased on your bed?
Is it wrong for me to forbid my husband to put pictures of his ex-wife in the bedroom? (Illustration)
In fact, this woman forbade her husband to put a photo of the deceased in the bedroom is not wrong. In feng shui, placing a photo of the deceased in the bedroom can easily cause people to dream, suffer from sleep paralysis, sleep poorly, and suffer from psychological and health problems for a long time.
It is better to place the photo of the deceased in the living room, the altar or a quiet, clean place to worship.
Other things should not be placed on the head of the bed
– Electrical appliances: Electrical appliances give off radiation, so these items should be kept away from the bed. The electrical outlet must also be at least 2m from the head of the bed, otherwise when the current flows, the radiation emitted will be very large, affecting human health.
– Electric devices: You should also not leave phones and tablets on the nightstand, otherwise their electromagnetic waves can adversely affect the brain, disrupting sleep, not sleeping deeply and for a long time. health.
– Mirror: Mirrors should not be placed at the head of the bed or opposite the bed, especially in the rooms of the elderly and weak. Otherwise, when you wake up in the middle of the night, accidentally look in the mirror and see your shadow in it, you will be very scared, become anxious and insecure, and easily get sick.
Do not place a mirror at the head of the bed. (Illustration)
– Alarm clock: Many people have the habit of leaving the alarm clock at the bedside to make it more convenient to turn off. But being constantly startled by the alarm clock can lead to chronic stress, causing problems such as high blood pressure, reduced sleep quality, and depression. Experts recommend that the alarm clock should be kept at least 1.8m from the bed.
– Statues of Buddha and gods: This is a taboo because it shows disrespect to the gods. From the point of view of feng shui, this means “hiding” fortune, making your reputation and career affected, difficult to prosper.
