The ten most common types of lies, one might even say, are myths that people today revere as the great truth of life. And by which they are guided in their daily lives.
Lonely because you’re without a partner
Nonsense! If a person could not find his soulmate, it does not mean that he is lonely. And if someone really believes that life is “incomplete” without a spouse, then it is worth considering that personal and marital relationships have not brought happiness to everyone. Still, it is better to be without your partner than to feel abandoned and lonely in the circle of a large family, in a “wrong” relationship. After finding a “soulmate” over the age of thirty and after realizing that this person does not promise anything “good”, it is better to break the relationship. You shouldn’t think, “It’s better this way than not at all.” Dedicate your life to yourself, find yourself, regain your self-esteem. In addition, the next time (if it happens) when the relationship spoils life, you will be psychologically ready for it. This means that you will quickly find a way out of the situation.
Happy is he who has everything
Even when a person has everything, he still wants something more. One may be grateful for what one has, but one will always expect something new. Sometimes, without noticing the little things that make his life bright, magical, a person strives for more, better, fresh.
But you have to appreciate not only every day, but also every moment, believe me, it’s worth it!
It’s so nice to remember the good old days in old age, flipping through the photo album. Well, if you spend your life in a constant race for the best, then what can you remember?
It immediately becomes clear that a person is bad
Every person is hurt, bad or scared. It’s just that someone skillfully knows how to hide this feeling, remaining a smiling person. The human soul is dark, the door is closed to outsiders, therefore it is a waste of energy to think and judge a person’s condition only by appearance. If you have free time in your life, then it is better to spend it with your family than to judge and probe people, trying to determine their inner state.
Life should go according to plan. And nothing else
No one will harm your life as much as you can do it yourself.
Having inflicted a wound on our soul, we ourselves can heal it. What is required for this? Just be realistic. One always has a choice about how to deal with certain situations. Therefore, it is better to immediately abandon unrealistic thoughts and perceive your life as it really is. Change everything in life that can be changed. Just move forward.
You have to be like somebody
You’d better give up the thought of being like someone else immediately. As psychologists say, once you become yourself, real, life will immediately change and take on new colors. They also claim that once you stop constantly comparing yourself to someone, that’s when life will change for the better.
The great life is not for everyone
This is usually a depressing myth,
which makes life unbearable. At the same time, if every morning in front of the mirror you say: “Today is a great day!”, “I live a happy life!”, And even if you fall asleep with such a thought, after a few months you can realize that you live in joy, and life will start surprising you with pleasant surprises.
Nobody wants hard times
Alas, to realize that life is beautiful, sometimes one has to experience the weight of a difficult moment. And sometimes, and go through all seven circles of hell. And in order to meet the right person, you need to get rid of the presence of those who interfere with your life. But in order to feel strong, one must at least once in one’s life feel weak. And in order to gain inviolability, one must experience for oneself what a split in the soul is. And to find your “soulmate” and live life with that person, you have to go through a crowd of people. Therefore, with an open eye and with an embrace, meet both the good and the bad, because both give us life experience.
Strong is he who does not feel pain – the eighth of the ten lies
Sometimes even a strong person can feel pain, both mental and physical. Thanks to this pain, a person learns to be strong, to overcome obstacles. It helps to learn: ask for a break, shed a tear somewhere, in some situation dust and move on.
Lying can be “for good”
This is definitely not right and not normal. For example, to say the three cherished and long-awaited words “I love you”, one must really love. But for some reason in our world these words are “passable”, “empty”, which means nothing. When you say “Thank you” to someone, you must be truly grateful to that person. I’m sorry, I’m sorry, I’m sorry, I feel for someone. And you yourself will understand that when the words are supported by feeling, people will be imbued with you with all their heart, with all their soul.
Daydreaming wastes time
A dream is the greatest gift. After all, people who love and know how to dream can feel a lot with their heart. What a person sees in his dreams is already part of the future realization. A dream helps to look beyond the horizon, to imagine what will soon become possible, but it is still hidden for some reason. Someday, somewhere, you will surely be greeted by the incredible, the imaginary, and you will have enough power and money to make all your dreams come true…
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