Jakarta, CNN Indonesia —
You could say, masturbation or masturbation in Adam has become a routine for Dimas (not his real name). This 29-year-old man admits that he masturbates almost every day.
However, he keeps this sexual activity from interfering with his daily activities, remembering the bitter incident in high school that he doesn’t want to happen again.
At that time, his activities at school were very busy, without adding subject lessons and the desire to still be able to socialize made him extremely stressed. As a stress reliever, Dimas makes masturbation a means of escape.
Until in the end, he got to the point where masturbation should not be absent for a day. If you don’t ejaculate for a day, your head feels dizzy, your mood is messy, you’re ‘irritable’ so it’s hard to focus on studying
“So long to experience that, until then ‘that’ [penis] can’t ‘wake up’. Until my hands are sore. I was afraid, why am I impotent? Where are you still in high school? At that time, I didn’t dare to go to the doctor,” recalled Dimas while talking to CNNIndonesia.com via telephone, Thursday (23/6).
The doctor was not a solution at that time so he decided to fast on masturbation. It does not necessarily eliminate masturbation completely, but its frequency is reduced and even becomes rare. For about one to three months, masturbation is limited to checking the condition of the penis.
If horny attack, what’s the diversion?
It is undeniable, there is always a temptation to ‘play around’. However, Dimas tries to be active in activities. In addition, an effort that is no less important is minimizing bath time and not too much daydreaming when defecating. Slowly the fasting method shows results and the penis is able to ‘rise’ as usual.
“If it’s a boy, he’s defecating, dumbfounded, playing with his penis. Where’s that right, he’s not smoking,” he said, followed by laughter.
Masturbation too often or excessively as experienced by Dimas can be dangerous. According to sexologist Haekal Ansari, anything that is done excessively will have a negative impact on both physical and psychological.
The psychological impacts include becoming addicted and creating a sense of self-confidence and guilt.
While the impact of excessive masturbation on the physical in men, if the stimulus is too strong will result in irritation of the skin of the penis to serious injury to the penis for example, fracture or fracture of the shaft of the penis.
“Too frequent masturbation can also cause a person to become “immune” and less satisfied with actual sexual stimulation due to reduced sensitivity to touch from others, and actually become more familiar with touch from oneself,” Haekal said.
Check out the continuation of Dimas’ story regarding masturbation on the following page.
Masturbation as self love
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