– It came as a great surprise. I was a little put out, it was a shock, admitted Dyste to See and Hear at the time.
Again on the farm were Siw Monica Sandlie and Ellen Anita Midtgard, whom the horse farmer had already had a very good eye for. In Monday’s episode, however, the 47-year-old of host Gunhild Dahlberg (46) admits that he is actually equally fascinated by both women.
– You could have stayed with both ?, asks a confused host, something the farmer confirms – to Dahlberg’s big surprise.
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Gave a promise
See and Hear turns on the thread of the “Jakten” farmer to hear how he experienced the situation:
– You can imagine a situation where you focus only on one thing 24 hours a day for several days, and that is to find a girlfriend. You are constantly challenged on your own and others’ feelings, and above all I was very concerned that everyone should be fine and feel welcome. It is intense, and you get so close to each other, at the same time as I was terribly lucky and had two beautiful ladies at home – then it is not so difficult to be captivated by both of them, he explains.
He decided to tell Midtgard and Sandlie how he felt, and even though he was very worried, he insisted that both he and the ladies deserved it.
– I had given myself a promise in advance of the recording that I should be honest about how I felt, both towards the suitors and myself. It is a rather extreme plan and setting, and if it was not completely open and honest, then it would be completely wrong.
He adds that he knew there was a risk behind telling the suitors that he was equally fascinated by both, but that it was worth it.
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– I do not regret today, he states.
– Very impressed
The program shows that Midtgard and Sandlie are served the truth, which leads to both tears and thoughts of withdrawing.
– Through the “Gårdsuken” recording, there was a roller coaster of emotions that went beyond the night’s sleep and made me tired. I actually considered withdrawing for the sake of my health, says Midtgard, and continues:
– I was very fascinated by Ole-Johan, and so was Siw, so this situation was tough. But I appreciated the honesty, even though it hurts to know that the one you are fascinated by likes you, and at the same time feels the same for someone else.
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– Withdraw
Sandlie, for his part, also admits that it was a bad message to get:
– It stuck a bit when he said that, but it was really completely expected. Ellen is a very lovely lady that you can not dislike, and I thought they fit so well together too. But you withdraw a little automatically – I think most people would do that.
She emphasizes that she greatly appreciated that he was honest, but does not hide that it was a couple of times she considered going home.
– The thought of leaving was present up to several times. But I did not want to make the choice for him. I wanted to get to know him better, but then you get scared of being chosen away.
What the suitors actually end up doing and how the triangular drama unfolds, is revealed in tonight’s episode of “Jakten på kjærligheten” on TV 2.
However, both suitors tell Se og Hør that they have a good tone between them, both then and now.