Al-Marsad Newspaper: Writer Reham Zamkeh revealed a problem suffered by everyone who lent or borrowed a specific amount to a person, then was surprised that the amount was not returned to him, and she gave an example of one of her friends who borrowed 20,000 riyals from her and did not return them.
vanishement
And she said, during an article published in the “Okaz” newspaper, entitled: “Return my money!”: “If you want to cut off your relationship with a person, give him money, and I guarantee you that he will disappear from your life as the devils disappear.”
real problem
And she continued: In fact, the talk about this phenomenon is divergent, and it is indeed a real problem suffered by everyone who lent or borrowed a specific amount to a person (unfastens his neck) and then found that the birds flew away with their livelihoods, so neither the borrowed money returned to its owner, nor the person (the borrower) returned to exist either! .
begging
And she added: The worst problem and the matter is that there is a kind of people whose face is (washed with broth), and he is not ashamed or hesitating to always beg and take advantage of your kindness to him and your magnanimity, and he urgently asks you to help him with money and lend him one, two, three, twenty without shame or any sense that (his bill The one who is due to pay it to you has become overburdened and he has not paid what he owes!
And she continued: The situation becomes more embarrassing if this person is a relative or friend of yours, so you feel ashamed when you ask him to pay the debt even though it is your right, but so that you do not understand a mistake, or the matter develops later between you for problems or courts and estrangement, and this is certain.
Pay off the debt
So I say to every person who (relies) on others and is accustomed to borrowing from people, if you borrow from a person and he gives you what he can from him to help you, give him this favor and do not deny his favor to you, because he is a noble and chivalrous person and you have to respect his position with you and take the initiative to pay off your debt to him as soon as possible Without taking advantage of him or denying him, and not returning his money to him.
circumstance peg
She said, but if you are a person who is accustomed to beggary among people and does not assume your responsibilities and work for it and for the sake of providing your life necessities, then this is a real problem for you, and your actions are not dependent on (the peg of circumstances) because you are not alone who has circumstances, priorities and responsibilities, for all people have obligations, but they They are not bound by you or anyone else at all.
Like Hijazi
She pointed out that there is a Hijazi proverb that says: “I borrow and sow, and do not borrow and swallow.” I think its meaning is clear and does not need any explanation… In any case, after all this long lecture on ethics, you see morality as commercial and (the world is free), and frankly myself I know how (the artist of the Arabs) turns on the embers of anger, and I wish he would give me the way.
20 thousand
And she added: I do not forget before I finish, and since (Qarnaqash is mentioned by Qarnaqash)..
A friend borrowed 20,000 riyals from me, and I (I will not say her name) out of respect for her father, Uncle Muhammad bin Saeed, and out of respect for her mother, Aunt Khairiya Bint Ahmed, and out of respect for her sister, the teacher Safia, and her brother, the engineer Abdullah, and I will be (better than her) and take into account the right of friendship and ten and forget that she took the money And I worked on it as a failed project, and I will suffice to say to her (return my money), O Fathia, because by God, I am a person who does not like (scandals).
