The Nightmare of Dealing with a Control Freak Mother-in-law.

The struggle between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law seems to be a never-ending family problem in real life. A few days ago, a member of the Facebook group “Bao Bei Po Po 2.0” pointed out that they agreed to get married because they thought their husband’s family would get along well. It’s the beginning of a nightmare!

a wife in“Grandma from the North 2.0”The article pointed out that I have been with my husband for 9 years. During the relationship, my husband would take her to play at home. Before I got married, I thought my mother-in-law was pretty good, and because my husband was the eldest grandson, my mother-in-law kept urging them to get married quickly. He specially called her and said, “If you don’t dislike my son, then marry him!” Later, the original PO found out that she was pregnant with a child, and thought that her in-law’s family was easy to get along with, so she decided to get married!

Unexpectedly, the nightmare began after marriage, because the mother-in-law finally revealed her super control freak and unreasonable nature! First of all, “Because my husband is working abroad, my mother-in-law suggested that I get engaged first. Since my husband wanted to save the vacation and stay with me for confinement, I was not in a hurry to go back to Taiwan to get engaged first! But my mother-in-law asked my family to do it first.” , the engagement banquet without the groom, to put it nicely, it means don’t let others think that I have a second marriage! So when I get married, can I, the bride, not be present?”

Then, my mother-in-law would call from time to time during her pregnancy, telling Yuan PO to eat less and control her weight, “Although I knew that I had severe morning sickness, she still told me not to leave my job and rest at home… To put it nicely, there will be no maternity leave after resignation. The benefits of parental leave, but in fact, the mother-in-law was pregnant at the beginning, and the morning sickness was serious, so she immediately left the job and rested at home! The double-standard mother-in-law…”

Next, although the original PO repeatedly emphasized that no matter whether the baby is a boy or a girl, he would not want to have a second child! Later, it was learned that the baby was a boy, but the mother-in-law said that a daughter is better and asked the daughter-in-law to continue having children. “But the mother-in-law gave birth to both sons, but no daughter!” The son emotionally blackmailed her, saying that if she could not take care of her grandson, she would have no purpose in life and would not be able to survive.

Finally, the baby was born, but the mother-in-law wanted to intervene in the naming of the baby. “My own mother wanted to choose the baby’s name by herself, but she was scolded and said that the baby’s surname was theirs, not mine! In order to choose The name made me cry all day during confinement.”

After the confinement period, the original PO took the child back to live with her mother-in-law for a month. During this period, her mother-in-law “quarreled with my husband all day, complaining that we would not take care of the child…but the child was crying, but the mother-in-law continued to hear it.” Resting in his room, so you know how to take care of the kids, why don’t you help?!” Even when the former PO went out with her husband, the mother-in-law would just call desperately to urge them to go home, because she couldn’t coax the kids, “That’s why we don’t know how to take care of the kids. Child!”

On the surface, it sounds nice to help my daughter-in-law to have an extra 10 days of confinement, “but give me leftovers, and the leftovers are still cold dishes, because my mother-in-law said that reheating dishes will make them old and taste bad.”

As for the parental leave, the original PO complained that she was raising a child at home, and her mother-in-law thought her salary was low. I don’t know, it turns out that mother-in-law is so difficult to get along with.”

As soon as the post came out, it also attracted heated discussions among netizens, “You have worked hard. Many things will gradually be seen clearly after marriage and after the birth of the child”, “Don’t pay attention to such people, don’t answer the phone call, stand Don’t open the door at the door of the house, it’s better to get close to people who are self-righteous”, “Looked at a bunch…what did your husband do? I don’t know the fucking problem… I don’t think I should leave the problem to them, please save the baby money, The child doesn’t have his last name”, “There is no goal in life, and life has no focus, so I have to disturb the life of my daughter-in-law. What about the father-in-law? Would you like to introduce her husband!”