Ms. Thanh Nhan and her husband (36 years old, Long An) have been married for more than 10 years and have an 8-year-old son. Currently, she wants to have a second child, so she has sex 3 times a week to get pregnant, but Mr. Hoang (38 years old) only responds sparingly.
Her husband did not change his opinion, causing Ms. Nhan to gradually no longer want to have a second child. Illustration.
Ms. Nhan said that she and her husband have a normal love life.
Previously, two people had sex about 3-4 times a week. Since turning 35, Mr. Hoang started reducing the number of times he had sex with his wife to 1-2 times/week, then 3-4 times/month. Some months, the couple almost “sleeps fast”.
After observing that her husband had no outside lover, Ms. Nhan thought it was because he was promoted, had a lot of work, and increased pressure, so she sympathized.
However, once he heard his wife insinuating blame for their lovemaking, Mr. Hoang frankly said that the couple had entered the age of 40, if they had sex a lot, they would gradually exhaust their health, reduce sperm quality, and if they conceived a child, they would have a baby. not healthy either.
Furthermore, Mr. Hoang once tore his leg ligaments while playing soccer, so he was afraid that doing “that” too much would affect his leg ligaments and bones and joints. He wants to only have sex 3-4 times a month to have a sublime love life, with good “breed” quality so the baby will be born smart and healthy.
According to doctors, abstaining from ejaculation should only be done for men who are in the situation of “running out of money before going to the market”. Illustration.
Working in a media agency, meeting many male and female doctors and obstetricians and gynecologists, Ms. Nhan also understands some knowledge about reproductive health.
She explained to her husband that holding or suppressing ejaculation would not be good, and the couple might even miss the opportunity to get pregnant, but Mr. Hoang remained steadfast in his opinion. This made her bored, no longer wanting to be close to her husband and gradually giving up the idea of having a second child.
If you hold off on having sex for too long, you might get sick
According to Dr. Harry Fisch, head of the urology department at New York Ecclesiastical Hospital (USA), ejaculation is the process in which semen is released when a man reaches orgasm. This is a natural physiological phenomenon. Typically, a man will experience 5,000 ejaculations in his life.
According to M.D. Doan Anh Sang, Men’s Health Center (Nguyen Tri Phuong Hospital), regular ejaculation can increase fertility, relieve stress, help sleep better, and enhance fertility. intimacy between husband and wife.
However, the frequency of sex depends on each individual’s health or desire. Ideally, couples should maintain it about 2-3 times a week and should be separated by 2-3 days to ensure the highest quality and quantity of sperm when ejaculated.
According to Dr. Sang, many men think that holding back ejaculation so that sperm has time to regenerate is not correct. Doctor Nguyen Ngoc Tan, Tam Anh General Hospital also shares this opinion. This should only be applied to men who are in the situation of “running out of money before going to the market”, but need to consult a specialist to ensure health safety and improve treatment effectiveness.
According to doctors, men who have the concept of withholding “love” to have better quality “breeds” may be at risk of facing male diseases, infertility, reduced pleasure, desire and negative effects. affects erectile ability…
Because, sperm will be created every day if you follow a nutritious diet and work and rest properly.
* The names of the characters in the article have been changed.
