A woman in Henan has taken care of her father with dementia for more than 10 years and is responsible for taking care of everything in life. (Picture/reproduced from Weibo)
Many elderly people suffer from dementia. If they do not spend money to hire caregivers, they have to rely on family members to take care of them. However, over time, it will also be a kind of pressure for the caregivers. There was a woman in Henan, China, whose old father had been demented for many years and could not take care of himself. She had no choice but to take on the responsibility of taking care of him. She endured this for more than 10 years and was on the verge of collapse, which made many people feel sad.
Comprehensive reports from mainland Chinese media indicate that the woman is now 30 years old and her father is 74 years old. They have been suffering from dementia for many years and are unable to live on their own. Therefore, she takes care of various chores such as eating, drinking, drinking, taking medicine, haircuts, shaving and other chores. She is unable to go out to work and is unable to work. He didn’t dare to travel far away. He focused entirely on his father and lived as if he were 50 years old.
However, the older the father gets, the more confused he becomes. On the morning of the 17th of this month, the woman went to see if her father was up. When she opened the door, she found excrement all over the floor. Her father pulled her down on the floor again and stepped on it everywhere, including the bed and quilt. , clothes were all stained, and she was so angry that she cried bitterly on the spot: “Don’t step on it and wipe it on it, why don’t you listen?” But not only did the father not feel any guilt, he even went over to beat her.
The woman hesitated to speak, put on a new quilt, then took the dirty clothes and soaked them in water, then bathed her father, put on clean clothes, and fed him breakfast. When she returned to the house, she told her father to use the toilet if he wanted to move up to a larger size. Unexpectedly, his father shook his head vigorously and said no, and soon his pants were pulled down again. But her father couldn’t hit or scold her, so she could only keep slapping herself and blaming herself: “I deserve it, I deserve it.” Unexpectedly, her father wanted to pounce on her and beat her.
The woman was angry but helpless. (Picture/reproduced from Weibo)
The more the woman thought about it, the angrier she became. She couldn’t help shouting: “You are disgusting every day. Look at your body. The clothes you just changed have not been washed. Now you have done it like this. Can anyone still live? I am Tiantian.” I can’t crawl out of the shit hole. I’m going to torture you to death sooner or later!” Thinking of her father not sleeping at midnight the night before yesterday, knocking on the door wildly. She comforted her for a long time, and then went to bed until the early morning. Finally, it was dawn. But it made a mess again.
The daughter heard the noise and quickly came in to comfort her mother. The woman said: “In the future, if I want to be like your grandfather, you have to find a way to kill me. Don’t let me live like him, you know?” She even admitted that if there were bricks on her body, she would want to slap herself to death, but there are bricks on her shoulders. Responsibility, she knew she couldn’t do this, she was angry, but she couldn’t ignore her biological father. After wiping away her tears, she helped her father wipe his butt clean, put on clean clothes, and then took the dirty clothes and sheets to wash. .
The Chinese New Year is about to come, but the woman is not in the mood at all. She is lucky if she can keep the house from being filled with shit. And she has lived this kind of life for more than 10 years, with no end in sight day after day. She knows that she Trapped, but unable to do anything.
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2024-01-30 07:58:38
