The First Date at the Altar episode ends in tears: “Why don’t I do better?” – 2024-09-25 02:03:21

First date at the altar -pari mystery27, and Matti30, are honeymooning in Reykjavík, Iceland. In the fourth episode, the honeymoon takes a sad turn when Taina cries profusely in the bedroom.

He says that he feels burdened, even though everything has gone well with Mati.

– It feels so wonderful, but at the same time it’s so hard on yourself. There is a feeling of inadequacy when the other person so wonderfully endures and supports, Taina describes her feelings for the camera in the episode.

Taina emphasizes in the episode that her condition is not directly caused by Mati. MTV

Taina says she wants to be able to do better and endure more when it’s not difficult to be in a relationship. The woman does not feel that her condition is directly caused by Mati.

– Maybe it’s the level of requirements I set for myself about how I should perform. I set the standard for myself at a certain height. If I don’t achieve it, I get the feeling that why am I not doing better than maybe I could, Taina says.

– Matti doesn’t create the feeling at all that I’m not enough. He emphasizes more how good, nice and wonderful I am. It’s just my own challenge, he emphasizes.

The positive thing about Taina is that, fortunately, something can be done about her feeling.

– You don’t have to stay alone with the matter. I’m going to talk to the experts and Mati. I’m going to accept all the support and work on myself so that I understand myself better and know how to say things so that Mattikin can understand me, says Taina.

– Hopefully the other way around as well: Matti would tell me things so that I can understand him and his feelings, the woman adds in the end.

As usual, the program’s experts are the pastor Kari KanalaPsychotherapist I met Alan and couples therapist Hanna Myllymaa.

Ensitreffit altarilla program on MTV3 channel and MTV Katsomo on Tuesdays at 9 p.m. See all program information and broadcast times on Telku.