The Emotional Test of Congenital Disease: A Mother and Daughter’s Heartfelt Moment

Many parents are welcoming the joy of a new life, but the most unacceptable thing is that their children have health problems. When a child has a congenital disease, not only the child is struggling, but the parents are also suffering. An 18-year-old girl with congenital heart disease was accompanied by her mother to the hospital for a return visit. The daughter questioned her mother in front of the doctor in the consultation room. She knew before giving birth that she would have heart disease. Why did you give birth to me?” The mother sighed, “Was it wrong to give birth to you?” The doctor on the side thought that there would be a mother-daughter bickering in the clinic, but they didn’t expect that the family drama would be reversed and let everyone watch Want to cry.

A Facebook fan dedicated to “Children’s Heart Reception Room: Talking about Children’s Minds”. Recently, a doctor posted an article to share. When I was seeing a doctor a while ago, I met a younger sister who was about to grow up in the clinic. She was a patient with single ventricular heart disease. At that time, her mother told her that when she became an adult, she should be responsible for her own health. Don’t always ask people to remind her if she remembers to take medicine.

The younger sister, who was nagged by her mother, couldn’t help but retorted to her mother, “You are the one who wants to give birth to me! When I was in your womb, you knew that my heart disease would have to be operated on many times, and it would never It can’t be a normal heart, why did you still give birth to me?”

Seeing that her daughter took the lead in instigating the quarrel between mother and daughter, the doctor felt awkward in the clinic, thinking, “What a pity, is there going to be a mother-daughter fight in my clinic later? Two at a time!”

After hearing her daughter’s complaints, the mother slowly asked her daughter: “Then you have grown up so much, do you think it was wrong for me to give birth to you?” As a result, the daughter first thought about it, and then said emotionally: “I Actually, thank you for giving birth to me.” The doctor revealed that the mother and daughter cried afterwards, but because there were only thick toilet paper in the consultation room, they did not pass toilet paper to the mother and daughter in the end.

The doctor emphasized that parents and patients absolutely have the right to fully understand their own or their child’s condition, and the medical team certainly has the obligation to explain it as best they can. will be a good decision.

Seeing this case, netizens replied one after another, “There are onions”; but some people said with emotion, “Congenital heart disease is a chronic disease. From birth, you have to seek medical attention for the rest of your life, and there is no way to buy commercial insurance. If your parents don’t have If you have a stable financial income, you may not be able to see a doctor regularly and receive appropriate medical treatment; if you do not have a strong family backing and build a strong psychological quality, suffering from heart disease is relatively weak in many ways, and you may often be denied and excluded. Whether it is studying, job hunting or marriage, it will cause personality development disorders. Life is very realistic, if parents are not able to take care of them, they really have to think twice about whether to give birth or not!”