This sentence can very well summarize the main idea of Adam Grant in his book Think About It Again. We usually assume that intelligence is the ability to think and learn, but in a rapidly changing world, the abilities to rethink and unlearn are becoming more virtuous.
The pact with modernity from the middle of the XVI-XVII century thanks to the scientific revolution, framed two non-exclusive directions: the lack of certainties and the diversity of opinions.
A truth today may be a joke tomorrow.
Unlike natural laws (gravity), social components are changing over time.
Human beings tend to privilege conviction over doubt.
We listen only to opinions that make us feel good, with which we agree (confirmation bias/desirability bias). We see disagreement as a threat to our pride.
But let’s think again, isn’t disagreement an opportunity to learn? I think the answer is yes.
It is important to live in a state of permanent learning and questioning. But for this, we need to have the ability to unlearn, to detach ourselves from the dogmas that we have bound.
This column is an invitation for the reader to reflect on their most important decisions. To let go of what doesn’t serve you and give mental flexibility a chance.
Unlearning is an art. It’s hard, you have to work. We are very attached to our beliefs, to our opinions. Some end up being part of our identity.
However, if we continue to prioritize the stubborn rigidity of our ideas, the chances of change and progress are less.
If the world changes so fast, why don’t our opinions?
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