Tatiana Okupnik years ago, she appeared in the media mainly due to her music activities. At one point, she too focused heavily on parenting, and all because of the complications she experienced while giving birth. Thus, she was joined by a group of stars who speak directly about motherhood without frosting.
Tatiana Okupnik on the taboo around the ‘dark side’ of motherhood: ‘I was sick of it’
Today, the singer wants to help other mothers who may be experiencing equally difficult experiences. In conversation with Poodle Tatiana Okupnik she explains that not only famous people create a taboo around the “dark side” of motherhood, and she herself has decided to simply break the conspiracy of silence.
Not just celebrities, not just celebrities, but we all do. If taboos related to motherhood or perinatal situations were discussed more often, those young mothers who collide with reality would not be in a bad situation. I wouldn’t just blame people from television or newspapers, but this is such an ingrained taboo subject that it’s hard to talk about. I started talking about it because it sucked and I thought it was just about me. This was the cause of malaise and depression. When I started bending over and got help from other women, I felt the need to say it out loud.
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Tatiana also says it was a form of self-therapy for her, and the more we talk about the less pleasant side of motherhood, the better for future debutantes.
It was self-therapy. At first I had absolutely no idea what was going to happen. It would be nice if I said now: “yeah, I thought I wanted to help these girls”, but the truth is, I had to vent. I imagined that I came back after 7 years and someone asked me: “Motherhood, congratulations, are you happy?” and it’s impossible to say what motherhood is in such a short interview. There is a miracle, emotions, beautiful and adorable children, but there is also a side that is not talked about. It’s not that she’s evil, it’s natural, and the moment you cover her, she becomes brutal and painful.
Tatiana Okupnik does not pay attention to hatred. “After these 7 years, I don’t care about her”
The singer also recounted what was the most difficult experience for her.
It’s a feeling of detachment. I’m professionally satisfied, I have a man who loves me and wants to have this baby with me and I made a conscious decision that I’m ready for a baby and all of a sudden I get pregnant, at first I’m happy, and then it’s like someone turned on a ” switch”. It was the hardest thing, the feeling that I was a mismatch, which I obviously didn’t fit. Nothing stuck to me, I started denying everything.
At the same time, Tatiana assures that she does not care about negative opinions and does not intend to hide what she has gone through. You also mentioned complexes.
Even if “someone something something”, after these 7 years I don’t care. It’s best to talk aloud about the things we’ve been through. It was my experience, I know something about it because I’m on the other side. The complexes were not about my appearance, but about terrible discomfort. Certainly the changes that occurred after the birth have lowered my self-esteem. My body in many districts looked inappropriate for its age.
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Tatiana, how long are you going to talk about this?
Carolka🌻🌺🌼
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“In a conversation with Pudelek, Tatiana Okupnik opened up about the most difficult experiences related to motherhood, depression and criticism for confessions that deviate from the sugarcoated view of being a mother.” For real? I have the impression that it speaks of nothing but this.
And she again on the shadows of motherhood. She will say anything as long as it is said! Only poor children
I feel like I’ve read this article 15 times already 🤪
Jesus, this for several years everywhere always on the same thing….
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Many years and always the same thing. I wonder if you love his kids, because he talks about motherhood as the biggest mistake in life
Woman, shut up or change the subject. We know about your vedzajna for 5 years that she doesn’t look good and that she is bad after having children. We already know!! ️ ❗️
The saga of the prolapsed uterus continues
Same thing again, she’s kind of obsessed with it. Strangers don’t want to hear it, many women have given birth and it has been better or worse, but Noah announces it left and right
But who are you complaining to?
cheers everyone…
4 mins
Show her what the body looks like after an accident or when cancer attacks or other diseases, help, help Jakub Znojek, the hero, on Christmas Eve 2020, show her what this young man looks like, I have never seen a man in such tragic conditions before and it was because of a drunk driver. I helped. And who helps others THANK YOU. ❤️
He should use the help of a specialist, because it is already unhealthy. I’m a mom too, I have a wonderful son, he sleeps through the night, he’s doing great in kindergarten, but despite this I’m constantly stressed about his health, life… every care at work costs me a lot of stress and because of everything this, and I remind you: I have a child without problems, I don’t want another one. I go to the psychiatrist, take the medicines and feel better, but the fears are still there. That’s why I don’t understand why women, after such traumatic moments, decide to have more children… let’s not go crazy!
Is there no other topic? I have been reading it for several years
There was nothing left for her to do but talk about the same thing over and over again. He doesn’t sing. Besides, he seems to have no idea. That’s why it’s always the same. Maybe they will make a program: Pimp Tatiana after childbirth. Nothing in life is free. Unfortunately, it is natural for a woman to give birth with all the consequences. I also have two children, even the births have not been a fairy tale, I won’t hide it. But I don’t go around repeating what I’ve lost. I understand that she may talk about how her life deceived her if she gave birth at 16, but it seems this woman was over 30 years old. So I guess you understand that life changes after you have kids. Or maybe it’s detached.
Jeeeeezuuuu Christeeeeeeee! I think her speech about childbirth would be torture! How many can listen! poodle stop!
Kurzaja on one and the same and the next Kobito you gave birth a long time ago how much can you complain again and again
And now, woman, stop ranting about yourself because I already want to throw up. You’ve aged a lot,
Will we only hear about his births for the rest of our lives? how do these children feel?
Give yourself a break. There’s nothing better to say than that, just the same thing over and over. I can’t read it anymore
