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Thursday, 23 Nov 2023 22:05 IWST
Illustration. Here’s a surefire trick to get your partner to make love. (iStockphoto/Ivanko_Brnjakovic)
Jakarta, CNN Indonesia —
Want to start first inviting your partner to make love but worried about being awkward? Check out the following tricks for inviting your partner to make love.
Sex is always fun. However, there are times when people are afraid to ask their partner to have sex. Fear of rejection and awkwardness often get in the way.
A longitudinal study published in Journal of Sex Research found that couples who reported poor-quality sex lives were much more likely to report lower levels of relationship satisfaction than couples who reported good-quality sex lives.
Therefore, it is important to take the initiative to invite intimate relations that contribute to relationship satisfaction.
To have a quality sex life, we have to ask for the sex we want. Although it can be scary to initiate sex, it is beneficial for your long-term satisfaction.
“Initiating sex is more likely to lead you to having sex than not initiating it—and this is important because sex is physically, emotionally, and relationally healthy,” licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist Laurie Mintz quotes Men’s Health.
Here are a number of tricks to get your partner to make love:
1. Discuss the need for sex outside the bedroom
Illustration. One trick to get your partner to make love is to have discussions outside the bedroom. (iStock/whyframestudio)
Conversations about sex outside the bedroom give us a chance to voice our needs, without the interaction feeling too intense.
“Each of you can share how you want to start and how you want to receive initiation, as well as discuss loving ways to decline the offer,” says Mintz.
This kind of conversation can provide a lot of clarity regarding what each of you wants and doesn’t want in terms of initiation.
2. Delete your partner’s to-do list
Taking chores away from your partner is a great way to free up more emotional and physical space for sex.
Showing your partner that you care about making their life easier can be a turn-on, says Marie.
“Tell them, ‘I got this. [Pergi] relax and get ready for fun. [Ini] something that has never been heard of and is highly appreciated by many people,” he explained.
3. Tell your partner when you’re in the mood
Mintz says, “Look your partner in the eye and state your needs, starting sentences with the word ‘I,'” she says.
Being open and curious is very important when starting an intimate relationship.
“Let your partner know what you want to experience and let them decide if they want to experience it too,” she explains.
4. Send flirty messages
Marie suggests sending warm, loving messages to your partner as a way to let them know you’re ready for sex.
5. Try non-verbal communication
Illustration. One trick to get your partner to make love is with non-verbal communication such as hugs and kisses. (iStock/PeopleImages)
Intimate gestures such as hugs, caresses, hugs, and kisses can let your partner know that you are in the mood.
“This works because the invitation probably feels pretty sexy to your partner,” says Mintz. If they seem like they want to go downstairs, ask if they want to move things to the bedroom.
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