This afternoon Stefania Orlando, presenter and protagonist of the last edition of Big Brother Vip, was a guest of Silvia Toffanin a very true.
The Orlando underlined how reality in many ways has helped her, both at work and at a human level, the relationship with her father, for example, has freed itself from many stakes and limits dictated by ‘modesty’ that were there before, and now it is lived in a much fuller and more intense way.
But it wasn’t all plain sailing because Stefania, which inside the Home of the GF VIP she spent almost 6 months, isolated from her life and from her loved ones, when she left she went through a period of great difficulty:
It was difficult, paradoxically I quickly got used to it, when I entered the House, compared to returning to reality, regaining possession of my life, and taking back everything I had left, I thought it was easy, instead it was a lot, very difficult. I had a sense of rejection.
The Orlando says that now she has left everything behind, but after the reality show she went through a crisis with her husband, Simone Gianlorenzi:
Now I am a serene woman again, but for a few months I have had a rejection for all the people I loved, and whom I now continue to love. Even with my husband … not that I had anything towards him, not that I didn’t love him anymore, but I couldn’t resume the relationships I had before, not even the dialogue I had before, I didn’t open up, I was closed in a hedgehog, under all points of view. And this obviously created problems in a couple that had been going on for 13 years, we have never had a crisis, this was the first time
Stefania also explains the reason for this difficulty in reintegrating into his pre life GF VIP:
I had tasted for the first time in my life the possibility of not having any responsibility, this thing had made me a little selfish (…) I felt very guilty towards my husband, because Simone has always been a very husband, I it is moving to talk about it … maybe he is the only person who really understood me, always, and therefore I had this strong sense of guilt towards him, but I didn’t even admit it to myself, this selfishness, which I now recognize, I didn’t understand it . He was so strong, so good, that he was able to wait, he never pressed the accelerator, he understood, as I always have … he understood that his wife was back physically, but she still had to come back, and then I came back, Fortunately. And I picked up everything, and I was very happy to take back everything, my responsibilities, my life, because I entered Big Brother as a happy, satisfied and resolved woman, I went out that I didn’t understand anything anymore, and now I’m finally back as I was, and I’m happy
