They are not serene holidays for Serena Garitta. The very nice protagonist and winner of the Big Brother 4then correspondent and columnist of Barbara D’Ursohe closed the story with his partner again Nicholas Anconafather of her 6 year old son Renzo. The two had just gotten back together last June, after another crisis: five and a half years together, then the breakup at the end of 2020. Now here we go again, but this time it seems like a definitive choice.
A tug-of-war at the Belen Rodriguez and Stefano De Martino which would have given the couple only a summer of great passion, weakened with autumn due to fault, so filters from the outburst of the same sentry box on Instagram, due to the lack of commitment and conviction of the partner, a 34-year-old tennis instructor, 10 younger of the former gieffina.
“What does it mean to love? There is no exact answer, but I got an idea – writes Serena -. Loving means being present to yourself and to the other; it is not a matter of dreaming that “and they lived happily ever after ” fairy tales, in which it seems that in love one magically comes across, as in the right size of the right piece, in sales. Love cannot be found, it is built, with respect. It is necessary to believe in a project; to play at seducing oneself , but also committing oneself to tasks, to the unforeseen events that life presents to you. I tried, and believed, a lot. For me, Renzo is absolutely the best choice of life: authentic, extraordinary, which makes me feel like a better person every day ; but with his father it didn’t work. Because love and the courage to love cannot be bought or sold; it takes an internal strength, a deep reason, which pushes us to take care of the other, of the project, of the family And then you have to be moved by an honest, dispassionate feeling sincerely that you can’t pretend, in the alluring smiles of the holiday photos, artfully mounted, with the right music. It is certainly a delicate phase; it is not a question, as in the past, of a semicolon, but of a new period. Be happy for me, because I am. We are happy when we acquire awareness of things, when we are sure that we are doing our best. It is a great conquest to be aware, and also a great strength that, to quote the greatest musical masterpiece of the millennium: “forever it will be, I promise, there will be no turning back” I SWEAR!”.
