Almost two years ago Maffashion and Sebastian Fabijański they became the happy parents of the little one Bastka. For two celebrities it meant a radical change in the way of life: caring for a small child does not go hand in hand with sparkling on the walls or taking part in subsequent “artistic projects”.
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Sebastian Fabijański in an interview with Pudelek, he admitted that the beginnings of paternity were difficult for him as well. Had to get used to that suddenly fell into a certain “home hierarchy” to a lower position.
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There is undoubtedly something to that a man after giving birth to a child has to deal with being the third one: because there is a mother, a son … And being second to my mother. It is not easy, I think, for every man, because they like to be the center of attention, they like to be appreciated and praised. – he told us in front of the camera.
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See also: Sebastian Fabijański: “After the birth of a child, a man has to cope with being the third one”
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Fabijański, however, assures that he is coping better and better with fatherhood. The matter is also facilitated by the fact that Bastek is growing up and, as he is almost two years old, is able to establish other relationships than during his infancy. Sebastian was worried, however, that he was unable to convey to him the right feelings:
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Here, too, I had the feeling that I was some kind of impotent in this respect, a little disabled, that I couldn’t play with him like that when Bastek didn’t do anything. I was afraid of this – he confides.
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What about the crisis in their relationship? An artist of many talents assures that yes, sometimes there are tensions between them, but there are no serious frictions among them. He and Julka came to the last event separately, because they exchanged care for Bastian. Besides, Sebastian is grateful to his partner that she is so “super embracing” the topic of motherhood, thanks to which he can devote himself to fatherhood.
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I can feel a lot deeper going on between usthat this relationship is becoming beautiful, it was unknown to me before, and I couldn’t find myself in it, that I have two left hands – He described raising Bastian.
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silence is golden … really.
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Adult guy with a spoiled 5-year-old mentality
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The third? This means that a) he does not participate in upbringing as much as the mother, b) someone has a problem with the fact that the world does not revolve around him. In both cases, the effect of the patriarchal model of society.
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for Sebiks Maff is also the third one after all … there is even a rafalala in the peloton ahead of her
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Hahaha, then you did it, boy, go perfectly to rafalala xD
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Many men in Poland treat their wife as a surrogate mother. They want her to cook, clean, take care of the house, do their chores for them, so that she is there for every call. That she would listen, support and forgive. When a child is born, such a husband feels as jealous of it as an older sibling feels when a young child is born. Many marriages resemble a mother-son relationship. I know widowers who are as helpless as little children after their wife’s death, because my wife did everything for them, even choosing the clothes they wore.
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There is no more hopeless guy in Poland than Fabjanski, a weak actor, a weak partner, a weak father.
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It says it is. It’s true that many guys can’t find themselves after the birth of a child, most of them are self-centered.
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What’s the Maff holding with him? I’m wondering. After Rafalala, I wouldn’t even touch him with a finger.
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Maffashion calls Seeeeeba come to me Misiek !!!!!!! My son is sleeping! 🙂 Seba to Maff: Sorry, I’m going to sleep. I need to sleep and rest. I will never understand this. Similar temperament, needs, cuddling and sex are very important in a relationship. They apparently did not get along in this respect. But that a woman and a peasant should be encouraged. This is already something wrong.
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Maffashion calls Seeeeeba come to me Misiek !!!!!!! My son is sleeping! 🙂 Seba to Maff: Sorry, I’m going to sleep. I need to sleep and rest. I will never understand this. Similar temperament, needs, cuddling and sex are very important in a relationship. They apparently did not get along in this respect. But that a woman and a peasant should be encouraged. This is already something wrong.
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What is he saying? As a father, I never once pushed myself into the background, I was very happy with the birth of my child and fatherhood still gives me great fun. I will say more, it had a very positive effect on me as a human being in general, I stopped worrying about stupid things and myself, I focused on the child and that’s cool. Besides, the company of a child calms me down.
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The third one has to find the other one
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These men – artists and celebrities – especially love to be in a coffin, in my life I would not want to be in a relationship with someone like that. It must be a very difficult relationship.
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For Maff, Bastek is the most important, and for Sebix Rafalal
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The guys move away by themselves after the baby is born … They are passive, offended. They expect these compliments, praise that the woman will stare at them with buttery eyes, but when they made a child to their partner, they also made her into another woman – one who has a great duty to care for the child and if she does not fulfill it properly, they will eat her. remorse. Contrary to what is said, the period of motherhood is extremely difficult and frustrating. Because apart from strong emotions (sometimes negative, sometimes positive) there are also physical issues, all this biology, etc. I think that no woman is bad by nature. And that no woman stops loving her partner in childbirth. These feelings don’t go away. It’s nice if the men reversed the situation a bit and instead of waiting in the corner for praise, they reached out to their woman themselves, said something nice, sexy. The answer will surely surprise them. Young mothers need it, the flirting and efforts of a man …
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This guy is a confirmation that there is a manhood crisis. A woman carries a baby for 9 months, then gives birth, breastfeeding, etc., she deserves a guy’s support and real help. And this nuance is moaning that he has been pushed to the background. shocking.
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if jealousy for a child is stronger than theoretically unconditional love, then you need to think hard about yourself
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Seba, don’t be afraid of the frog, for Rafka you are number 1 🙂
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