In a post about Instagram He says influencer and “Blogger” profile Sara Emilie Tandberg (30) which was at her very first Christmas party.
– I’m lost
At the same time, it reaches out to others who have experienced feeling out of place in that context.
“If you’re one of those who gets a knot in my stomach from the word, I want to give you a big hug and tell you that you’re not alone,” he writes, among other things.
– I felt very lonely
– I thought about it a lot, because this was my first Christmas party. Now that I’m in my 30s and have never been to a Christmas party before, Tandberg tells Se og Hør the background to the post and continues:
– I remember so well going into the November/December period and feeling that the Christmas parties were something everyone went to. Then I felt like I was one of the few who had never done it and felt very alone.
– Heartbreaking to hear
Tandberg believes it’s important to remind people that it’s not a given for everyone to go to a Christmas party.
In front of Se og Hør, she also tells more about why she herself never attended such events.
– I’ve been sick, which means I haven’t been at work, so I haven’t had a Christmas party in a work context, says Tandberg, referring to the fact that she’s been disabled for a long time due to an ME diagnosis.
Then came the corona pandemic, which set its limits.
– I’ve always had girlfriends, but it wasn’t a gang. So I fell off a bit.
– Kinda fun being single
– I had a coup
Tandberg describes that during the times she’s opened up social media and seen all the photos of those enjoying themselves at Christmas parties, and that she’s heard many stories about how fun it is.
– The ex was at a lot of Christmas parties both with the boys’ gang and at work, she says, adding:
FIRST CHRISTMAS TABLE: Here is Sara Emilie Tandberg at her very first Christmas table. Photo: private
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– So I’ve been sitting at home with the kids while he was at the Christmas party. So I hear that every year. It’s not a good feeling.
Tandberg points out that she hasn’t been kept out and that it’s not about not having people around her.
– What do you think is the solution to the problem?
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– First of all, it’s nice to normalize the fact that there are a lot of people who haven’t been to a Christmas party and that’s okay, that there shouldn’t be any taboos. Because I heard that people thought it was very strange that I had never been there before, says the influencer and adds:
– Then you don’t feel so alone, because when I shared this now, I received many messages from different people who have never been to a Christmas party. It’s nice to know that there are more of you, so you don’t feel left out or different.
Tandberg will now encourage you to shop around a bit and be good at including and inviting.
– How was your first Christmas table then?
– Very nice, but now I’m pregnant, so it was a coup, she laughs.
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