When Romy posted a number of videos and photos of her trip to Ibiza on her Instagram Stories, her fans knew for sure: she is pregnant. But she was not pleased with this. She soon announced that she was not pregnant and “I am not planning to or even doing that at all”. After her post on the social medium, her inbox was filled with loving, but also poignant responses. So it is very clear to Romy: the pregnancy question is rude.
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Romy writes that she has received many messages in her inbox. ‘Of women who are not yet mothers and who would like to be. And continuously painfully confronted with that one question. Of women who don’t want to become mothers at all and find the question rude. Women who have a healthy and happy first child and are already asked for a second one. Women who often have a low, swollen belly and who are uncertain about that question. ‘
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‘I think it is clear that we all need to be more careful with the baby wish question’, she continues. ‘It is not the case that you should not ask him anymore (…) but you must be aware of who you ask this and how and when it really does not hurt. It saves someone grief. ‘
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For whom the pregnancy question was justified, was Kim Kötter. She and her great love Jaap announced that they are expecting for the third time, she tells all about it below.
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