The story of a strong single mother must be given to women. Annie Brook your mother Nong Teekhayu The latest to share life experiences Go to work and earn money to raise children abroad. In the list of Toh Mam with the host Noo Mam Suriwipha Ready to reveal how to raise children. Cultivate awareness of the value of money.
How do you raise a child?
They used to ask me why I was born. When I was about 10 years old, I was shocked because it was a question that I had asked myself when I was this age. We answer that we were born to escape. is that we must give up and then we will be released Suppose if we were the giver and always had some of us. For example, we have this much money, we keep it, we have the right to spend about 8 parts, share 2 parts to share with others.
How is his development now?
When we were young, we would love to play the role of mother. is that everything is taught Shake hands and write to teach that this one is right, this one is wrong. This is good, this is bad. But when the child enters adolescence, we can’t be mothers, we have to be friends for them. which we see as having no advantages as a friend Here, it doesn’t mean that you have to always hit each other. There is still a mother who gives friendliness like a friend. That is, listen because in the past we were the ones who kept talking and being the masterminds. which we cannot control him as a teenager Because he will start to be himself even more. He started to open up about his story even more by listening to his friends more than us.
Does your son talk to us about everything?
We have to start from the youngest. Build trust with him before assuming that he did something wrong today. For example, he spilled water on the table. The first thing every parent must do is curse immediately. But nowadays, if a child does that, we must remain silent, not using a high pitched voice.
How much do we have to sacrifice?
We don’t go and wait. Can’t wait because our children’s lives can’t wait, their future is in our hands. I’m so economical that gasoline is very expensive. A bottle is not 10 baht in our house. Overseas, a bottle of water is about 50-60 baht in our country. which we put tap water into a large clean basin and put it in the sun My father went to work and came back thinking that the chlorine had evaporated and I boiled it. And wait for it to cool, store it in a chilled bottle without having to buy water.
Staying at home nowadays has to be very economical. I didn’t buy my own clothes. Like a child, we must have a lot of patience and a lot of psychology. We have to be both mothers and friends for him. If he has any problems, we must build trust with him. What he said to his mother would not be wrong. We have to make him believe. No matter what he did wrong, the first thing he would hit was not the wand. It wasn’t the eyes that looked at him with misunderstanding. We have to ask him how I can solve this problem. Let’s help each other.
How do you teach your child to save?
He knew that we traveled to work abroad. He always asks when he will come back home. He will know that we go to work to earn money for him to study. which I told him about everything I rarely buy things for my children. Because he thought it would be a little happiness for him, but one day he had to sell the game because he felt that it was not happy. We asked him why he wasn’t happy. He said that after playing and it’s over, it can’t go on at all. I want to study a course with a teacher abroad. In which he brought the money from the sale of the game to pay for his studies And there are brothers who come to support and help
What are you proud of him about?
He was an idea person. We thought that many words did not come out of his mouth. We feel that it’s very refreshing. I feel that we are on the right track in raising him like this. As the words he said “Lucky to be born as our son”, we feel very proud. Didn’t think we’d be able to have today.
