Paula Verhoeven talks about trust, learning is not dependent on people

Paula Verhoeven he is currently deepening his spiritual journey. In the midst of not-so-good home situations, Paula Verhoeven talks about trust and learning not to rely on people.

In the Rumpi Special Umrah broadcast: No Secret Vacation, Feni Rose asked Paula Verhoeven about what she said on the YouTube channel. Paula talked about how important it is for women to be independent.

Living independently is said to be one way to ward off pain and disappointment.

“Actually, it has a lot of meaning, from things like employees only, the people we work with like to disappoint us a lot. As well as correcting ourselves. At times we already appreciate them, as people we already give them more. Lessons I have learned from “That is, what was given to us we must forget,” said Paula Verhoeven, Saturday (12/ 10/2024).

The former supermodel said often as humans we feel good towards someone. However, people who receive good treatment do not respond well and that can lead to feelings of disappointment.

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“We feel that we are good, but we don’t seem to get anything good in return. I learned not to depend on other people’s feelings. I learned not to be the rely on people. We can only rely on Allah, that’s all,” he said.

Paula Verhoven admitted that she had been let down or disappointed. Hearing a lot of advice from scholars, Paula Verhoeven realized that everything she had now was just a gift.

“Everything has trust, children also have trust, but children are serious, yes. But we still have to practice the little things, we must not rely on people for our hearts, we must be depend on God,” he said.

“For example, we are with friends, we are used to this and other people, we cannot rely on other people. If that person leaves, they cannot help us, we feel broken -expectation. Well, that is not allowed, that is the feeling that we need training,” said the mother of two children.

Paula Verhoeven, who currently wears the hijab, said that when she talks about religion, she admits that there are still ups and downs. As a person who is still learning, Paula Verhoeven feels that it is her duty to increase her faith by being in a positive environment.

“Religion is up and down, if we don’t renew we also forget. That is why we must be surrounded by a positive environment because the environment influences, if our environment is a stove, we will not be cool automatically,” he said.

“I feel that if we trust someone or we become more emotional and heated, we have to stop talking to that person. But on the other hand, if that person settles our hearts, that is what we need to look for in such an environment. “, said Paula Verhoeven.

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