find love in ‘First Dates’ or in real life it is a complicated task. However, the attitude It is important when it comes to being successful in finding our better half. Something similar happens when we make thinsince commitment and predisposition are key to achieving our goal.
Through a video shared on his social networks, the popular nutritionist Pablo Ojeda compares Cuatro‘s program with diets and launches an interesting reflection about why people fail both in love and at losing weight. In both cases, the reasons could be more similar than we think.
The reason why relationships fail, also for diets
Ojeda observes that in ‘First Dates’ there is always many participants who say they have had very bad luck in lovewho have had many partners and who are 50 years old and still single. This leads him to the next question: “Paco, maybe the problem was not the 15 partners you have had, maybe the problem was you, who are looking for something that It is an ideal and it does not exist“says the expert.
According to the nutritionist, this same idea comes to mind with the topic of diets, when people say ‘it’s just that I have done a thousand diets and none of them work for me.’ “Hey, it may not be the diet, it may be you,” says the specialist.
In the case of weight loss techniques, “you may be looking for things that I don’t have to try hard, I don’t exercise and I still want to have some resultsand I want to go out on the weekends, get up to here and not gain weight. And I want complicated weeks to go by that I have no control over, and still lose two kilos,” says Ojeda.
Attitude is the key
The nutrition expert uses irony to give more examples of those who always search and find excuses for not keeping your promises: “And I also want there to be a stable temperature of 23.5 degrees, for Jupiter to be aligned with Saturn and, logically, three times a week I can have a bun with potatoes dipped in bread and nothing happens.”
The nutritionist makes it clear that that attitude is not ideal nor to diet and lose weight, nor is it effective to be successful in love and find a stable partner. “Hey, this doesn’t work like that, I’ll have to adapt to what there is, to the circumstances, try to generate the conditions that are as favorable as possible but “I have to do my part, otherwise this won’t work.”ditch.
