I didn’t hear anyone or anything. I only felt the strong hands of my husband on my shoulders and understood: we can handle everything. We will overcome everything.
Our oldest daughter is 12 years old. Fedor and I dreamed of a big family, where at least four children and a house are a full bowl.
However, dreams do not always come true. After the birth of Alice, I could not get pregnant for a long time.
For three years, my body was recovering from a caesarean section. Then we started planning the second one, but a year later we found out about problems with women’s health.
All this year I could not get pregnant, from which I was very worried. When I went to the clinic, I underwent an expensive examination. He was diagnosed with multiple diagnoses.
I was found to have inflammation and viruses blocking the passage of sperm to the egg.
I was treated for a long time and hard, with breaks to unload the body. At that time, I didn’t know that I had fallen into the clutches of medical scammers.
A private clinic took advantage of my vulnerable position and pumped money, coming up with new diagnoses and ways to treat them.
So I lost another six years on useless pills. Because of hormone therapy, I gained weight and felt ugly.
In the state polyclinic, they were able to help me in just a year and a half. I got pregnant and felt great until the second screening.
The child in the womb was diagnosed with a heart defect and offered to think carefully again: give birth to my sick daughter and suffer with her for the rest of my life, or terminate the pregnancy right now.
The doctors tried to support me by saying that after the abortion I would be able to get pregnant again and, most likely, a healthy child.
I cried in despair and did not know what to do. At this point, my husband supported me. He said that we would give birth: no matter how the baby is born, he is ours.
Having ascertained the authenticity of our daughter’s diagnosis, we decided to keep her. Relatives were not told about health problems – why upset yourself and your loved ones ahead of time.
The husband was immersed in a common problem and took an active part in everything. I was taken to the operating room, where they prepared me for the second caesarean section.
The birth went smoothly, but I can only see my baby girl for a few hours a day. She lies in a couveuse under the wires.
The husband spoke about the diagnosis of his mother’s daughter after the birth of the child. She immediately called me and started a dialogue with claims.
The husband’s mother was outraged that she had not been told about the child’s illness earlier. Otherwise, she would have told us how best to proceed.
– Well, why did you keep the problem pregnancy? I should have gone for an abortion! How is Alice now: you will forget about her with a sick baby.
– It’s also your granddaughter. Why are you like this?!
– You are young and do not think anything in life. Give us a healthy baby, and leave this one in the hospital. Our family does not need extra problems!
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2023-08-30 18:11:50
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