I’ve noticed for a while now that my group of friends has changed a lot.
I’ve been friends with these people for about 3 years and everything was actually always good – everyone got along, no big arguments and no one was ever left out.
But since one of my friends (a) stopped doing so much with us because she found other friends and left her former best friend (b) and us behind a bit, our group of friends changed a lot.
There are only three of us now and I feel a bit left out from the other two.
I feel like I’m being avoided by my best friend. It feels like she’s been seeing everyone but me for the last two months.
And when she has time off, she never asks us if we could do something again.
I’m just tired of always having to be the one organizing such meetings.
But even if a meeting is possible, it just feels wrong. Whenever I tell you something, I always have the feeling that it’s just artificial interest on their part.
When I told my best friend that my grandpa died, all I heard was “lol”…
And I know for a fact that she only says that when she’s not interested in something.
I don’t even like going to school anymore because of this. During breaks I don’t even stand with them anymore because it’s really tiring.
I try to include myself in their conversations the entire time, but in the end I just listen anyway because they’re both so in their bubble.
I can’t really talk to either of them about my interests. I have the feeling that neither of them really understands me.
What did i do wrong?!
