My husband and I dated for less than 3 months and decided to get married.
I know it’s a bit hasty, but partly because the two of us are old, partly because we know each other’s families, if it’s slower, next year I won’t be of age to get married, so I have to wait. Moreover, both of us felt that we were compatible, so we decided to get married.
I just got married at 32 years old, so I never dreamed of being the first woman in his life. Although when it comes to each other, I’m actually a virgin. But I’m very clear, what’s going on.
But on the wedding night, the night with many other wives is happy, I cried alone in bed. Illustration
He is more than 30 years old, rolling around a lot in real life, also experiencing many love affairs, there is no reason to hope to be the first. Things in the past I also absolutely never asked. Asking what to do when it only makes the present more exhausting and haunting.
We got married in a hurry but everything went smoothly. Both parents know each other, they are the ones who match us. My husband’s parents love me very much.
Both of us have stable jobs, have a good income, accumulated capital is enough for the future, and we have a house. Everything is prepared just for the two of them to live peacefully.
But on the wedding night, the night with many other wives is happy, I cried alone in bed.
Regardless of the reason, the fact that on the wedding night he took the computer to the office and sat until the morning leaving his wife on the wedding bed was also an unacceptable cruelty.
He told me: “I’m sorry, but the project needs to be finished urgently, to prepare for the wedding, I have been off for 2 weeks now, now I have to finish it so that everyone doesn’t ruin everything”.
Did the first night quarrel? I gritted my teeth and accepted to let my husband go to the office to sit and hug the computer. I cried in the middle of the wedding night and fell asleep because I was tired…
Then we went on our honeymoon. In the midst of those happy days, I received a strange message. The person who texted my number is your ex. She scoffed at the excess happiness I had.
She also said that on the wedding night, he did not stay with me but went to another room at her request.
Because he was still very much in love with that person, he also followed suit, wanting to spend that wedding night for his old love… How sad to hear that.
I don’t know how deeply they love each other, why they broke up, but I have absolutely nothing to do with them. It’s not my fault for them to make fun of me like that.
I may not be perfect, but I’m not a piece of junk for him to do whatever he wants to do with me. That very day, I just wanted to take my suitcase home, end my honeymoon and get a divorce because I felt that my self-esteem was hurt too much.
I called my mother crying like rain. My mother felt sorry for her daughter, but she still advised me to stay calm, if I did that, I would have won his old love scheme. Now that we divorce her, she has nothing to lose, only humiliation for the two of us, humiliation on both sides of the family and she laughs and benefits.
I’m not sad because that ex-girlfriend teases me, I’m sad because of the way he treated me. Should I do as my mother says, keep quiet about this or make a big deal out of it?
