Through Emma Grivotte
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He is 41 years old but by his shirt and his amorous excitement, he looks much younger. “I behaved like an idiot because I am desperate for love”, complains the defendant like a teenager who knows his first sorrow.
In a relationship for ten years, he could not bear to have his partner leave him for another. Since the breakup, he has been harassing the two women sitting opposite him in their beautiful summer dresses, in the court of Nanterre (Hauts-de-Seine) Tuesday June 8, 2021.
Harassment and threats
In November 2020, his ex-girlfriend meets his future half at his workplace. The defendant does not understand that she wants to separate from him and begins to harass them. Hundreds of death threat messages, up to 96 missed calls in three hours…
The new companion is forced to change three times his email address and phone number because she constantly receives racist and homophobic insults, of which the screenshots serve as proof. She experiences feelings of insecurity and guilt which lead her to a state of depression and a two-week break from work.
Three times, the defendant takes a photo in front of his rival’s home and sends her to scare her. He also divulged his address and contact details 71 times and created fake accounts on behalf of women on Tinder, Facebook, Instagram and Badoo. Arrested after their complaint in early June, he explains to the police that he still loves his ex and just wants to talk to her.
Domestic violence
However, the ex-concubine suffered for nine years, out of the ten years that their relationship lasted, violence from his companion. On March 15, 2021, the woman filed a complaint for regular beatings, psychological violence and threats with a knife. “The facts are extremely worrying, defends her lawyer. He talks about himself a lot. He says they had a good time, but their relationship was fraught with violence. Love is not that. “
In the cubicle, the defendant spends his time complaining and does not seem aware of the impact of his acts of harassment. “It was to intimidate him, but it’s not very bad,” he concedes as he threatened to hurt his ex’s partner. Moreover, he was arrested at his home by about twenty police officers, thinking he was armed, “as if I were a top-flight criminal”, he is surprised.
“He’s a dangerous person”
“He’s a dangerous person. I am waiting for a firm sanction and the ban on approaching us, ”hopes his last girlfriend. “He would have acted sooner or later, supports his partner. Once he was waiting for me at the station. I’m afraid, I would like him to be imprisoned. “As for the defendant, he finally understood that he must drop the case:” He’s someone I loved. Now I wish them all the best in the world and I don’t want to deal with them anymore. “
Psychiatric expertise points to his psycho-affective instability and his intolerance of frustration, symptomatic of a trouble borderline. Otherwise, the man has been a waiter for twenty-five years on the Champs-Élysées side in Paris and wants to continue working to keep his accommodation. In addition, he is looking forward to receiving treatment.
A story repeating itself
His criminal record feeds the suspicions of the court: from 2006 to 2012, he was sentenced for repeated death threats, domestic violence and malicious phone calls whose victim was none other than his previous companion.
The public prosecutor sees in the man a “problem of narcissism, he considers that having been abandoned carries more weight than his love for this woman. He is obsessed and verbally and physically abusive. “
Man is doomed to one year in prison including six months of probationary suspension of two years, in accordance with its requisitions. He must follow psychological care, work or be trained and is prohibited from contacting or appearing at the homes of his victims, as well as at their place of work, and from holding a weapon.
His sentence will be converted into house arrest with an electronic bracelet. He will also have to pay € 1,000 in moral damage to his ex-partner and € 2,000 to his partner.
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