“My Boyfriend Cares More About My Money Than Me: A Complaint on Dcard”

Any use of money, values, or comparison with the ex between the partners will become the fuse of quarrels and disputes. A female netizen complained online that she was very dissatisfied with her boyfriend’s spending on her. She remembered the accounts very accurately and gave people a feeling of being fussy, but she didn’t know about a certain ex-girlfriend and was willing to help her ex-girlfriend pay all the expenses. , which made this female netizen extremely unbalanced in her heart. When the two sides quarreled, she made a point of poking her boyfriend hard. In the end, the other party said that because the girlfriend was “the first time”, but the original PO was not, the financial tolerance for the ex was a kind of compensation, which made the original PO angry, and many female netizens also exploded after seeing it.

A female netizen complained on “Dcard” under the title “Boyfriend cares about giving fairly”. Her boyfriend is very calculating about her.

Later, the original PO had a big showdown with her boyfriend in order to keep accounts, and asked the other party why he was willing to pay the ex-girlfriend in full in terms of money, but could not give her the same treatment. Unexpectedly, her boyfriend returned to her. That girlfriend was “the first time”, but the original PO was not. He would tolerate and pay the ex-girlfriend in full, which was his compensation for the former girlfriend. The original PO was very dumbfounded and angry, and asked all the netizens on the Internet, is it normal for her boyfriend to be so fussy?

After the post was exposed, some netizens said unceremoniously, “Just because he said, ‘It’s the first time, it’s compensation’, I will argue with him to the end. Is he buying virginity?”, ” Isn’t it the first time you don’t need to cherish it?” But some netizens think, “Comparing with ex-girlfriends is really boring, everyone feels different; boyfriend’s reason is even more dumbfounding, is he buying someone else’s hymen?” Some people think that the original PO should also reflect, “Fair What’s the problem? It’s not an obligation to help you pay.”