Recently, a wife said that because her husband is the only child in the family, her mother-in-law really wanted to hug her grandson: “I thought my mother-in-law just thought she didn’t really have to give birth to me, and I didn’t expect her mother-in-law to. is really behaving in an increasingly exaggerated way, indeed it is forcing her to die. ” She didn’t know what to do.
The original PO recently in the forum《Dcard》The post said that my mother-in-law liked to ask her when she was going to have children, if she wanted to have any children she had to give birth as soon as she was little, otherwise she wouldn’t have the strength to take care of her when she was old. “When we got married, I was 26 and my husband 30. I think I am too young., My career is not stable enough and I don’t want to be bound by my children, so I always talk to my mother-in-law and I’ll have a look” .
After six months of marriage, my mother-in-law’s attitude changed dramatically. The original PO said, “I was very nice to me when I first got married and she always helped me cook supplements, buy my favorite cook dishes, and said she would treat me like her daughter. ., now that he thinks about his purpose is simply to want me to have a baby, because now he sees me at home and makes a bad face. ” She came home from getting off work and crawling on her phone. My mother-in-law said, “Whose daughter-in-law is lazy all day, she doesn’t do housework and she doesn’t give birth to children to get busy.
The original OP said that she once peeked at the chat records between her husband and her mother-in-law, “I even peeked at the chat records between my husband and her mother-in-law, and it actually encouraged my husband to find a new partner and get a divorce. To say that I’m too young, I have too many ideas of my own to have children, and I will not be obedient and obedient to everything that comes next. “In the face of her offensive mother-in-law, the original PO chose to face him coldly. He stays with her, still talks about crying at family dinners.
The original OP said that the mother-in-law even bought a can of sleeping pills and swallowed them in front of them: “This really scared us two and we immediately threw the pills away. I talked a lot with my husband last night, and my husband He heard that it has been almost a year since we got married. Is it really necessary to have a child to stop my mother-in-law from doing this? He said he is very worried that his mother will make him do stupid things again. a child and we give her an explanation. My life may be more stable, but I just don’t want to, I told my husband that I think my mother-in-law is acting for us, otherwise why should she choose to swallow the medicine when we are all there. ” The original PO doesn’t know what to do now, he doesn’t want to divorce, he doesn’t want to give up.
After this article was exposed, netizens commented, “Your mother-in-law and husband are very bad. For women, having children is really super unacceptable to be sloppy and sloppy”, “standard emotional blackmail, I also think it’s bad. . They are not sleeping pills at all “,” Are sleeping pills that easy to buy? Not a controlled drug “,” I will tell him to swallow the sleeping pills in the most filial way “,” If you give up now, she will have to make progress when she knows that this trick works, otherwise Divorce, my husband is not frank at all. “
