Santo Stefano di Camastra (Messina) – He made the latest posts on Facebook around 1pm yesterday, then he wrote a letter: “I’m taking Alessandra away with me, I’m sorry I ask for forgiveness.” A few hours later, she went out with her daughter. They never came back. Mariolina Nigrelli and Alessandra Mollica, who was 14, were found hanged in their country house shortly after 19.30. The letter was on the kitchen table. In recent times, the woman was beset by a great labor. Witnessed by those latest posts. Earlier he had relaunched the photo of a city in the evening with the inscription: “Some things are understood only afterwards. Much later. Too much later “. Then, he had posted the image of a tree suspended in the clouds, with the phrase of “Dark angel”, the black angel: “Easy to play with words. Difficult to play with life. It is disgusting to play with people ”.
Mariolina’s husband, Alessandra’s father, is in despair, Maurizio Mollica, a well-known blacksmith in the town of ceramics: “Yesterday afternoon, shortly after seven – he told the carabinieri – my wife did not answer the phone. I was worried. I looked for them everywhere in the village, then I went to our country house. And there I found myself in front of the tragedy ”. Mother and daughter were hanged from a beam in the cottage located in the area of the Sanctuary of the Holy Bed. An initial inspection by the coroner confirmed the hypothesis of suicide murder, an autopsy will still be done, the magistrates want to dispel any doubts. Some family members spoke of quarrels in the couple. Her husband confirmed it: “The last discussion yesterday morning. But they were arguments concerning our daughter”. It seems that the girl felt emarginated at school.
Throughout the night, in the cottage of the tragedy, there was the prosecutor of Patti, Angelo Cavallo, who coordinated the investigations of the carabinieri of the provincial command of Messina.
A woman and her 14-year-old daughter found hanged in Messina
by Salvo Palazzolo
May 29, 2021
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The labor of the woman
Mariolina Nigrelli was very worried lately. She was worried about her daughter. He posted a video of a young girl who had won her battle against bullying. And then he had published other phrases that tell about his state of mind. “Whoever has betrayed you will be betrayed – says a post – whoever lied to you, they will lie. Who has offended you will be offended. Anyone who has made you suffer will be done worse because these are the rules of the game ”. Another photo on his profile says instead: “Choosing who to talk to is important, understanding who to keep quiet more”. The story of a deep wound that he carried inside. “I will respect you in the same way you respect my daughter”, this another post.
The reproach
On May 19, she seemed to blame her daughter for something. This post, taken from the profile “Emotions of the heart”, is aimed at her: “Some children will never understand the tacit plea of a parent who warns you about something. When a parent asks you not to smoke, he is asking you only to live longer than him. When a parent asks you not to go out with certain people it’s just because those people might hurt you. When a parent calls you multiple times on his cell phone he doesn’t do it because he wants to annoy you, it’s just that his soul is quivering in knowing that you are at home safe and sound. A parent never gives you the worst or wishes you so. A parent loves you and begs you to have a better and happier life than his own. ” The woman had added, in dialect: “In fact, they say put yourself with those who are better than you.” Adding: “You just make me sick.” Investigators are trying to understand what he meant.
The mayor: “There is a collective responsibility”
“Now is the time of pain and solidarity – says the mayor of Santo Stefano, Francesco Re – solidarity that must push each of us stefanesi to be close to Maurizio, to all family members who find themselves living a dramatic moment”. The first citizen makes an appeal: “It is also the moment in which whoever was eventually aware of facts and circumstances useful to facilitate the investigators to reconstruct what happened, immediately make themselves available to them and collaborate”.
“When events like those of yesterday happen – continues the mayor – there is always a collective responsibility that must push everyone to reflect on how much and more could and should be done to support conditions of psychological fragility amplified by 15 months of isolation and social restrictions suffered due to the Covid emergency “.
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