Married to a rich man, had a house, a car, and a lot of income, but I soon realized how foolish I was

I used to think that money was everything, I had to marry a rich man to have a stable and secure life in the future. Marrying a poor man is difficult no matter what. Husband and wife fight hard for money but end up broke in the middle of the road.

So among the guys who were flirting and pursuing me, I chose to marry a rich man. He has a house, a car, and a solid career with high income. After marrying him, I don’t have to worry about economic issues and can spend freely.

I used to think so, but when I got married I realized how foolish I was. Money isn’t everything, marrying a man who only looks at his wallet is foolish. As for smart women, when they get married they not only care about money and housing but also look at these two things.

1. That man’s sincere love and affection

Smart women understand that a marriage without love is like a puddle of water after the rain, easily disappearing. If your partner does not give you sincere love, then living in a spacious house with little money to spend will also be very lonely, lost and miserable.

What women want most is the attention, companionship and love of their partner. Money and home are important, but without love everything is meaningless.

Love is the foundation of marriage. If there is no love in a marriage, the relationship between husband and wife can easily break and be shaken by outside factors. And once the man leaves you, everything superficial like house, car, money disappears.

As for my marriage, I married my husband for money, and he probably doesn’t have any deep feelings for me.

Marrying me as your wife is probably just because of my beauty. Because there was no sincere love between us, our feelings gradually drifted apart, and then my husband had an affair…

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2. That man must know how to respect his other half, no matter the circumstances

Respect is what women need most in marriage, it is even greater than the value of money and home. But some women foolishly ignore this, including me.

That day, when discussing marriage, he had a disdainful attitude toward the bride’s family, but I didn’t care at all and kept my eyes closed. Then after getting married, every time I mentioned my maternal family, he would take on a disdainful tone, even suspecting me of secretly taking money back to my parents.

Only now did I realize the importance of respect in marriage. Only when a woman receives respect from her partner will she be truly happy. If she is not respected, she can only hold her husband’s money and shed tears. What does money and superficial flashy things mean anymore?

In general, in marriage, money and housing are just the tip of the iceberg. Foolish women will only see some of the superficial things above, smart women will look further and deeper to have a safer, happier marriage.

So I hope that no woman is as foolish as me, don’t let money blind your eyes and then regret it.

When getting married, look at the man as a whole, don’t just look at the money but look at his personality, personality and family background.