A mainland woman went home during the Mid-Autumn Festival and was asked about her relationship status and urged to get married by her relatives, but she decided to directly express her personal opinion on the matter. (Picture/reproduced from Weibo/White Deer Video)
Many people today do not regard marriage as a necessary option in life, but if they reach the marriageable age, they will inevitably be questioned by their elders. A 25-year-old woman surnamed Xing from Zhengzhou City, Henan Province, went home for a dinner with her cousin of the same age during the Mid-Autumn Festival. Her elders took turns asking about her relationship status and urging her to get married, saying “there are differences between men and women.” The cousin responded that her family should respect her feelings. She also said that her cousin was not married, “Does our family have a throne to inherit?” These words left the relatives speechless.
According to a report by the Chinese media “White Deer Video”, Xing Nu went home for a dinner with her cousin of the same age during the Mid-Autumn Festival. Facing the 7 or 8 elders present, they took turns urging them to fall in love, get married, and have children. Unlike Xing Nu, her cousin chose to listen silently. opinions, but express your own views directly.
The cousin said that she is very happy to be single now. If her family really loves her, they should respect her feelings, and the cousin is not married. However, Xing’s daughter’s father believed that the reason why his cousin was not married was because “men and women are different” and therefore they cannot be compared. However, his cousin refuted it, “Why are they different? Do we have a throne to inherit?” These words made Xing The female father was speechless.
Xing Nu pointed out that every time there is a festival or a family dinner, the elders will talk about marriage and love. “Because we are people living in different times, we will have different ideas and opinions. They may be for our future.” Think about it, so I think they can give us some suggestions, but just don’t interfere, just respect each other’s ideas and make their own choices.”
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2023-10-01 17:20:47
