Before that, the stylist herself shared a story where she encountered abuse.
“I had been living with an abuser for many years. I am a strong man and a strong woman, but I fell under the influence of an abuser, and this is a terrible story in my life. For some time I wanted to erase all this from my memory,” said Liliya Rakh in the video.
In an interview From the journalist Ksenia Sobchak, Lilia clarified that we are talking about her second husband. Lilia said she understood everything after two months, but she thought she would fix everything.
“Watching the Bishimbayev trial, I saw this face so many times. This treatment is unreal, even the timbre of his voice – he can be so sweet when he talks to people about loving you, and then… Do you understand? We didn’t pay attention to all this, it seems to me, in the world. But, unfortunately, there are a lot of such people. Maybe even this test was now, so that people would start to see and talk about these people, because this must be eliminated so that this does not happen,” said Lilia Rakh in the interview.
Lilia is sure that when you meet such a person, you don’t know what to do, there is no psychological recipe on how to get treatment, there won’t be one.
Lilia said there were a large number of cases of physical and psychological violence over 12 years. And she shared one case where her husband, whose name is not Lilia, threw her into a glass table, which broke, and then he went to eat and sleep. The stylist compared this to the story of Bishimbayev.
“Bishimbaev ate and slept too, mind you. These are abusers. This is a terrible diagnosis,” said Lilia.
She advised to get to know the person better so that you don’t meet an abuser, not to rush, and not to hope that he will go away. Among the signs she mentioned sudden anger, from love to insult, and compared the screams of an abuser to a growing man, that you must learn to hear.
The journalist gave the example of Bishimbayev’s divorce from his first wife, that he did not let her go and treated her. Liliya Rakh said that she had been recovering from this condition for more than three years, and that the man had been harassing her with calls and threats for a year and a half.
Let us remind you that the trial of the murder of Saltanat Nukenova ended in Astana on May 13. Kuandyka Bishimbaeva of charge the court found him guilty for torturing and murdering his wife and sentenced him to 24 years in prison.
