My husband had health problems and had to postpone our marriage. I have a need to “fill” my lack but do not want to go through “self-satisfaction”. I heard that there is a breathing method that can be used to reach “peak”, I wonder if it is a myth?
A.Dung (HCMC)
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Normally, if there is an intention to “make up” when the couple’s relationship is temporarily closed, women often seek “non-penetrative sex”, including self-satisfaction or mutual satisfaction. Non-penetrative sex has a hands-free orgasm section (HFO), in HFO there is a section to “climax” with specialized breathing exercises.
HFO is roughly understood as hands-free orgasm. There are many ways to free the hands, the easiest is to replace the hands with physical effects (rubbing; using blankets, pillows, showers, sex toys, pelvic floor exercises…) or non-physical (movies, mind, breathing exercises…).
According to the above, there is no shortage of ways to reach “cloud nine” without having to do anything. A little mysterious is the way to use the mind and breath. These 2 guys are the reason HFO is also called “zen orgasm”.
Finding pleasure through breathing or orgasmic breathing originates from Tantric dharma – a “mystery” that is difficult to explain with both ancient and modern medical theory. However, there is a suggestion: breathing helps gather blood to the area of the yin (where orgasm originates), in the same way that it gathers qi in the solar plexus. One more idea, orgasmic breathing seems to be a Kegel muscle tightening exercise using breathing.
Clearly, orgasmic breathing is not only difficult to understand but also difficult to do. The realm of just relying on the mind or inhaling and exhaling to “peak” well, perhaps the number of people who can achieve it can be counted on the fingers of one hand. For example, with the Kegel pelvic muscle tightening exercise – an HFO that is much easier to grasp, many people practice it over and over but still do not get results.
Having said that, maybe “good luck may come to you”, ladies and gentlemen in need can refer to orgasmic breathing exercises on reputable sites. Remember, because it’s just breathing, orgasmic breathing is relatively safe. Besides, it is necessary to note some side effects (nausea, arrhythmia…) and mild contraindications in cases of arrhythmia, heart blockage, taking psychotropic drugs…
You don’t clearly say why “self-compilation” is taboo, but let’s not forget that HFO and orgasmic breathing are all “self-gratification” and just replace the means for the ends.
After all, you just want to “make ends meet” while waiting for your loved one to return to full health, so in general, “self-satisfaction” is a reasonable solution, but using any means probably doesn’t need to be too strict. Again, reaching the peak with your breath and mind is not an easy thing to do. If there are other better solutions, choose them.
