Kürt Rogiers learns some wise lessons after saying goodbye to his mother: “I will never say those words to anyone again”

Kürt’s mother was diagnosed with ALS. Although people were talking about slow ALS at first, after a few months it became clear that she could no longer be cared for at home. “She could no longer walk without a walker, and it became difficult to speak. We took her to a residential care center and after a month it was clear that she would never go home again. Then things went downhill very quickly,” says Kürt about that time in Nina.

“You are a beautiful person,” were his mother’s last words

It was very difficult for Kürt, because he and his mother had two hands on one stomach. “She was my biggest fan. She continued to feel bad until two days before she died, when she could no longer do anything Family look Her last words to me were: ‘You are a beautiful person.'”

Many people wished the actor good luck, but that is a word that Kürt no longer uses. “With good intentions, but I don’t wish anyone ‘good luck’ after a loss. Because it is only by allowing weakness and grief that the grieving process can take its course. I now wish ‘courage’ to everyone. You need that to deal with that new reality.”

“You need to reset your happiness. I spent months thinking: nothing will ever be the same without my mother. And that is true. But you reset your happiness. This is a new level.”