The father was judged this Friday, February 11…
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The father was judged this Friday, February 11 by the correctional court of Bordeaux. “I am not a stalker but a father in distress who wants to protect his children”, he repeats at the bar. ” I do what I can. ” The tone is set. It will be word against word. Does he want to make his former girlfriend who left him pay or is he being wrongly accused?
Quickly, he says he is a victim of what he is accused of: domestic violence, harassment, wild recording, intrusion into private life that he has redone. “I’m getting dirty, I’m the bad guy in the story when it’s a woman broken by her family past who left the house because she kept thinking about the surgeon who operated on our daughter and who is violent and nasty with her children who no longer want to go to her house. Yes, I write emails but I will not sit idly by when I learn that she lets our daughter sleep in her urine or that our child has access to photos of man sex on the mother’s cell phone from a girlfriend! »
mentally exhausted
“The family court judge validated the reasons for my concern,” continues the father. And Madame systematically files a complaint on the eve of the hearings. Which has already earned him a few hours in police custody and an appearance in court.
“He does everything to make her look like a sham, the pathetic woman, the unworthy mother and the incapable professional. The damage is incalculable, but she did not come to mint coins. She asks for a symbolic euro. All she wants is for her daughters to know that they are children of love”, pleads Me Anne Cadiot-Feidt.
The psychiatric expert met a “psychically exhausted” woman and also a “procedural” man, who has not mourned the relationship, in a passionate position detrimental to the couple’s children who find themselves in the midst of a conflict of loyalty and hostages of a parental problem that is beyond them”.
The defendant claims to have faced him “a team with specific roles”, up to that of blackmailer. “It’s a tissue of lies,” sighs the mother. I fled, but I did not abandon my children. And I lost everything when I left. »
She regrets ever having slapped her daughter or taped the father to “have proof.” But everything is a pretext for reproach. I did not question the joint custody, it is normal for the girls to keep a relationship with their father”. She says she has been living again since a contact ban was issued last summer.
His lawyer, Mr.e Anne Cadiot-Feidt is convinced that this procedure is “interrupting a process of aggression that could have had even more serious consequences.” The barrister denounces “stubbornness and instrumentalization of others.”
“A Cabal”
“She is still in danger. He is the Holy Innocent, he is the vigilante and goes crescendo in omnipotence. He does everything to make her look like a sham, the shabby woman, the unworthy mother and the incapable professional, continues the lawyer. The damage is incalculable, but she did not come to mint coins. She asks for a symbolic euro. All she wants is for her daughters to know that they are children of love. »
Deputy prosecutor Olivier Bonithon does not want to “blow on the embers. But the conflict is on his side. He wants to take the children away from their mother to destroy her and make her look dangerous. However, she does not add to it when he overdoes it”, notes the magistrate, who speaks of “toxic relationship” and worries for the future, before requiring eighteen months to two years of probationary suspension with obligation to care and prohibition to come into contact with his ex.
In defense of the defendant, Mr.e Eric Grosselle does not hesitate to speak of conspiracies and cabals. “Because the violence described by the little one is not an inadvertent slap. This file is about a father who finds himself face to face with a mother who does not assume her past sufferings and makes her children toast. The girls are in danger. We are talking about harassment when we are shown 19 emails over five years, it’s a joke! This is not harassment but an exchange on education. The lawyer asks the judges to “straighten the case the other way around. He is the victim. If he is convicted, it will have serious consequences for the children”.
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