Isa Hoes has not been able to find the right one again after the death of her husband Antonie Kamerling. In JAN the actress is candid about her turbulent love life over the past ten years. “I really gave myself up.”
Hoes became a widow at 43 and at the time expected that she would find a new partner relatively quickly. Ten years later, after several failed relationships, she is still single.
The first man with whom Hoes got into a relationship turned out to be homosexual. As a result, the relationship ended, despite the fact that they “had a great time”.
Hoes then had a brief relationship with a married man, who had only recently left his wife. He put her in complete ecstasy. “In addition to my brain getting tickled again, we had great appsex and one crazy lovemaking that I will never forget.” The mother of two children turned out to have an enormous need for this. “I really gave myself completely, enjoyed my body so much and felt enormously liberated afterwards.”
Nevertheless, after a brief affair with Hoes, the man decided to go back to his wife. “You don’t just throw away a long relationship. And for us this was enough. But I am still grateful to him for that fantastic morning.”
Hoes got a stalker
Finally, Hoes got a relationship that ended disastrous. When the actress broke up after a few dates, the man started stalking her. “It didn’t go out, at least I wanted to, but he didn’t give up.” The man called her continuously and threw packages into her letterbox himself. Hoes eventually advised him to seek help. “Because it wasn’t me, he had one, and not one of those little ones either!”
The new edition of JAN is entirely devoted to Antonie Kamerling, who took his own life ten years ago. Hoes is guest editor this month.
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