She has been doing it since her daughter was born and sees no problem with it, says Patricia. “My husband and I always kiss our daughter on the mouth. We don’t think it’s anything strange, but my mother thinks it’s ‘gross’ and comments on it because we didn’t do it that way at home before. I don’t want to worry about it, but I still do. it affects me. How do I deal with this?”
Annelies Bobeldijk van WOW! Parenting coaching I can’t help but sigh deeply at this. “I honestly think this is nonsense. Why do you care so much about what someone else thinks about something? If you don’t find it strange to kiss your daughter on the mouth, then in my opinion there is no problem. A child of Seven is also a good age for this and if she is still okay with it, there is nothing to worry about.”
Everyone raises children in their own way, says Bobeldijk. “And if someone else has a problem with that, you don’t have to solve it. People will always have something to say about something, but that doesn’t mean you have to listen to it. It’s important to see why this comment affects you so much. Apparently there is little confidence in making your own choices. Get started with that. You don’t need someone else’s approval for something so basic. Be clear to the other person and leave no room for interference: that’s how we do it, that’s it And leave the judgment there.”
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2023-12-19 11:44:36
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