The friend is acting strangely. We used to have sex maybe four times a week, but now all he wants from me is a “whistle”. But I have nothing to gain from doing it with my mouth. I’m getting frustrated. At the same time, he watches porn and pretends to be. I feel a little offended, so why doesn’t he do this to me? (Eva, 32 years old)
Eva, I understand very well that you are dissatisfied. But getting angry won’t make it much better. You have probably been together for some time now and, as usual, the frequency of sexual intercourse is lower and sometimes desires and desires start to differ. Instead of gossiping, try to find a moment together and talk to yourself. But no regrets! For example, try watching the porn movie together and ask him what exactly he likes. And say what you like. Communication is simply very important in this regard. If that doesn’t work, try consulting a couple counselor. An impartial person can often give good advice;)
