Since the end of the marriage with Totti “not a lot of time has passed yet. I have mixed feelings, melancholy, nostalgia, but also tenderness because at the end of the day it was a beautiful marriage, I have no regrets or remorse”. Ilary Blasi says it, speaking with Silvia Toffanin on Verissimo on Canale 5, who has her first book entitled ‘What a fool. My truth ‘(Mondadori) in which he retraces the phases of his relationship with Francesco Totti.
When the stories end “it’s not just one person’s fault, I too will have done something wrong, but in dealing with this situation I don’t feel like I have any regrets” he adds.
Now “I have no anger, the disappointment remains but I look forward. It’s a circle that has closed, that life has ended and another has begun. Perhaps a new Ilary has been born. You grow, you change, you become more mature and suffering helps you look at life differently”. The title of the book is “a bit provocative for not having realized before (what was happening)”. She wrote about it “it was like a psychotherapeutic session, a cathartic experience, it did me good, and in any case in our history there were many more good moments than bad ones”. With respect to the crisis, there are many signs that the presenter did not grasp, such as “when Francesco didn’t show up for my birthday due to a work excuse, which wasn’t. However, these disappointments then allow you in some way to be more clear-headed and turn the page more quickly.” Divorce is “a suffering in all situations” but the support that came from many women “who found themselves in this story” was helpful.
To those who criticize her for washing dirty laundry in public, she replies that “I agree, they are right but the first to wash dirty laundry and hang it out was Francesco with the interview with Corriere”. Blasi also rejects the idea that there was an open relationship between her and Totti: “It makes me laugh.
As I said, perhaps it was only open on one side. Because otherwise he could have accepted the coffee or the doubt of betrayal, it was evidently not open”. It is inevitable that the statements in this regard from the personal trainer Cristiano Iovino also enter the conversation, who in an interview with Il Messaggero stated that between them there would have been an intimate relationship, not just a coffee, as she had said: “For me, intimate relationships are different” she observes. However, “I’ll make a premise, there is a lawsuit underway with Francesco and it’s not a good one – remember -. I’m not surprised that the interview has arrived now because Cristiano was cited by Francesco as a witness.
However, I will always thank him” because “in September 2022 he came to Ronin, a club in Milan, to my agent’s party and made some revelations about Francesco’s past that opened my eyes definitively”.
You don’t get used to the wave of gossip that has hit both of you, but you “live with it”. With respect to the impact on the children, “I protected the little girl” while the adults get it “because they are on social media, but they have gone into self-protection, I don’t even know if they read anymore. At the beginning I saw them destabilized, but it seems to me that they have found they too have a balance.” Ilary Blasi’s book ends with her invitation to the former number 10 for dinner with the family to find harmony despite their story having ended: “I’m holding out my hand to him, it’s clear that ours is no longer a family standards, but we will always be parents, it’s a family in a different way.” Theirs now “is more of a severed family than an extended one. More than anything, we are expanding on both sides. But I am fine, I have found personal balance and I hope to be able to find it in this new situation too” . Even if at the moment “there are no relationships between us” explains the presenter, who cannot say how her ex-husband is experiencing all this: “I don’t know him anymore, it’s not him anymore, I seem to see another person “.
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2024-01-29 07:32:00
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