On Channel A’s’Icon Tact’, which aired on the 6th, Choi Hong-lim tried to make eye contact with his brother, who had been violent against himself and did bad things to his family.
On this day, the applicant for eye contact was Choi Hong-lim’s older sister. He said, “My brother and younger brother Choi Hong-lim living in Busan are in a state of despair for nearly 30 years. I want to reconcile the two.” The reason why Honglim Choi and his brother became a relationship that they did not see each other was because of his brother’s violence. Choi Hong-lim’s sister said, “In the old days, if my brother didn’t have money, he came home and beat his brothers and took money. It must have been a real horror to Hong Lim, who was 10 years old.”
Besides, my brother, who said he would give a kidney transplant to Choi Hong-lim, who had suffered from renal failure, went to sleep a few days before the surgery. Choi Hong-lim’s older sister said, “In the end, I did the kidney donation.” In the end, it was Choi Hong-lim’s older brother who entered the eye contact room first. He said, “I have committed so many sins. Once upon a time, while wandering during puberty, my family went to Seoul and only I was left in Busan. But every time I went home, I thought that Honglim was taking the love of his family, so I angered him.” He said he wanted to apologize before he died. “I can’t forgive me,” said my sister’s refusal to say, but in the end, she entered the room at the request of her sister. Choi Hong-lim, who faced his brother, said, “It’s because my older sister said it was a wish that came out here.”
In the broadcast that day, Choi Hong-lim told the story of the violence that his brother had in the past and his family who became unhappy. He said, “I ran away to live in junior high school, so I couldn’t walk. I went to my uncle’s house, but my aunt saw my body and was astonished.” “I was hit by my brother, so I had a problem with my eardrum. So I can’t listen to people’s stories well. I speak loudly because I want to hear my voice.”
“When he came home, the whole family was terrified. Didn’t we take home appliances from our house and hand them over to the pawn shop because we didn’t have money? So, when my brother came, my family left home appliances to someone and we all went elsewhere.” In response, my brother made an excuse, “Because I was in puberty,” but Choi Hong-lim said, “At that time, my brother was in his 30s, what kind of adolescence?” At that time, I was in my second year of college.”
–Choi Hong-lim mentioned his deceased mother. Choi Hong-lim said, “When my mother suffered from dementia, she never visited her and she did not give any help to her sister, who took her hardly. “But why did she cry at the funeral?”
Also, his brother was shocked by Choi Hong-lim, who said that his mother, who was deceased, had attempted suicide in the past. Choi Honglim said, “The reason I really dissent with my brother is because of my mother. When I was in elementary school, my mother made an extreme attempt. I barely got a taxi and went to the hospital. I don’t know how many cars I didn’t drive at that time.”
The two talked about a’kidney transplant’, an opportunity to stop’willingness’. Choi Honglim said, “At that time, after my brother told me that he would give me the kidneys, my sister said,’Somehow I think I should give it.’ In the end, my real sister gave it to me,” he said, and the brother bowed his head deeply. And the older brother said, “At that time, I truly thought of you, but I am living alone now and people around me asked what to do if anything happened. “I’m sorry I missed the opportunity in 30 years.”
When the time of choice came, Choi Hong-lim said to his brother who apologized to him, “I tried not to see what happened to him. Now that my brother has asked for forgiveness, I will go to my brother’s funeral and cry,” he said. “I think I will meet him someday, but not now.”
Jo Yoo-kyung, Dong-A.com reporter [email protected]
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