I want another ‘exit interview’ with my ex-boyfriend: The wisdom behind it

Your relationship just ended, now what? Do you still talk about the good and the less good moments together or do you opt for total radio silence? Such a conversation always looks good in films, says relationship therapist Jean-Pierre van de Ven, but it has little effect in real life. In this section, our experts answer a reader’s question every week about relationships, health, nutrition and other topics.