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“I don’t trust anyone anymore. Regulating chats »- Corriere.it

from Valentina Santarpia

The principal Sabrina Quaresima tells the day after the decision of the regional school office which established that her behavior had not violated the disciplinary code: no measures or proceedings were taken against her

When you speak of the student with whom she was suspected of having had a relationship, it is difficult for her to talk about forgiveness, because “after all it all started with these rumors”, from him “who wanted to brag to friends”: but Sabrina Lent49 years old, director of the Roman high school Montale, just “Cleared” of the inspection of the Regional Education Bureau, she doesn’t believe it was the 19-year-old who wanted to harm her.

Did she esteem him, did she love him?

«Absolutely, I thought I had found another student with whom to have a relationship of trust and mutual respect. He is a smart boy, who probably let himself be captured by someone who wanted to take advantage of a moment of weakness at an institutional level, he fell for it with all his shoes ».

Was there a conspiracy?

“Plot, plot, you use all possible terms: yes, absolutely yes.”

Who would have engineered it?
«The hypotheses are many. Someone wants to avenge himself? ».

Talk about‘former vice principal? Would you like to clarify with him?

“Our relationship is closed and compromised forever, because his behavior was inconceivable to me from the beginning.”

Does the school endorse it, after the inspection verdict?

«I am happy and relieved, but unfortunately I have not found the atmosphere I hoped for. I entered without great expectations but I found the graffiti on the walls even more aggressive than the previous ones. There is no doubt that this is a personal attack. I have the support of many teachers and the solidarity of professors and principals from all over Italy. But there are people capable of poisoning an environment ».

Did you expect this outcome?

“I always had a clear conscience, but I couldn’t know what others could tell.”

Parla delle notorious chat, which theoretically could emerge in court. Are you afraid of this eventuality?
“No, I’m very happy.”

What lesson do you draw from your story?
“Don’t trust anyone, be very careful, even in accepting someone’s help, because we don’t know never what could be behind it. Unfortunately when you change your role, as in my case, it is difficult to immediately change your vision. I was used to giving my all to students ».

Should chats be regulated, as the principals ask?

“Yes, they can shorten the distances between teachers and students and also be exploited, distorted”.

Italy has split: those who believed that, even if there was something between you, there would be nothing wrong, since they are two adults, Macron model. And who instead considered it an abuse. How do you see it?
“If I could have estranged myself, I would have immediately understood that something was built. There was talk of a love relationship, but no relative argument is deduced to love. There is talk of stalkerization, of not wanting to let someone go, and there is no trace of it anywhere. I would have immediately understood that when there is a desire to offer many details, it is because you want to make something very credible. And this is always suspect ».

What will it be like at school now?

«The one I continue to be every day. Present, ready to listen, but I will know how to put a brake, a small space between me and the rest of the world ».

Was there also a male-dominated vision that influenced it?

“Yes: a teacher who came to see me underlined my femininity, from her point of view, which was able to contribute to this reading”.

Will he ask for a transfer?

«For now I don’t think about it. Rest the principal of Montale and when i get to school i just think i have to do my best to carry on my work. The anger is great. But I have to keep it under control ».

Now would you like to forget?

“Too soon. No revenge, but justice yes ».

So in court will he do whatever is necessary, even asking for substantial compensation?

“Until the last breath.”

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April 22, 2022 (change April 22, 2022 | 07:58)


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