Wedding Ilya Averbukh and Liza Arzamasova caused the most controversial assessments in society. While some wish a couple of long years of a happy family life, others predict an imminent divorce. This is due to the big age difference between the spouses – more than 20 years. Sexologist-psychologist Ekaterina Kiseleva, in an interview with 5-tv.ru, told about the pros and cons of such an alliance.
As a rule, both spouses find advantages in such marriages, she said. This is often due to the fact that all people in one way or another follow the precepts of the wise grandfather Freud – men subconsciously look for a wife who looks like their mother, and girls – for a husband who looks like their father.
“In such marriages there are advantages for both men and women. Girls feel much calmer with older men, more secure, since their spouse is already well-established financially and morally. Such a person is sensitive to the family. And a man, of course, is pleased to see a blooming young woman next to him, who is ready to idolize him, love and indulge in everything ”, – said the sexologist.
The main danger is that a man may deliberately choose a young wife in order to assert himself at her expense. Then marriage can be a real nightmare for a woman.
“Unfortunately, some men deliberately choose a younger girl as their wife, as they cannot assert themselves with their peers. They choose young girls, against the background of which they look stronger, taller, their word is law, and the result is a marriage with an abuser. Yes, it happens, but we will believe in the best ”, – said the psychologist.
However, according to her, there is no hint of such a scenario in the union of the actress and the skater. They are united by common interests, which means that there is a high probability that a bright future awaits them.
“I hope that the couple of Ilya Averbukh and Elizaveta will live happily ever after. They both move in a creative environment, they have a lot in common. Elizabeth brings her zest of youth and energy to the couple. From Ilya comes strength and wisdom “ – concluded the sexologist.
Liza Arzamasova and Ilya Averbukh got married secretly last Sunday, December 20th. For a long time, the 25-year-old actress and the 47-year-old skater hid their relationship from the public. Earlier 5-tv.ru told what future predicted the marriage of celebrities Roza Syabitova.
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